D'ster said:
But the question is, what would you choose for your daughter IF you could?
My observational experience suggests that she would encounter fewer vital risks in untangling the nasty web of sexual relationships should she be lesbian. Nonetheless, her sexuality is not mine to choose; her happiness is not mine to snuff out.
And since I am not a woman, and cannot be a lesbian, "choosing" the sapphic paradise for her would still be unwise, as my perceptions of lesbian relationships is largely superstitious. I may observe, I may be acquainted, but I am still connecting the dots on my own pages, and run the obvious risk of seeing the star of the goddess where the image really is Barney the Purple Dinosaur's pecker.
That I must explain these notions at all is a chilling reminder of the diversity of human experience. For instance, I don't think you're actually trying to be stupid, hateful, or priggish, but I do admit it escapes me why this is so important to you.