In a society that scoffs at two men holding hands and thinks its normal for a man and a woman to share a bed!Huwy said:Men have plenty of past-times and bonding experiences they share together.
In a society that scoffs at two men holding hands and thinks its normal for a man and a woman to share a bed!Huwy said:Men have plenty of past-times and bonding experiences they share together.
It's quite apparent that the more heterosexual a society gets the more oppressed and short changed a man becomes. It's only the heterosexual ones who get kicked off on that. Who's arguing that!Huwy said:Its fathers who aren't allowed to spend enough time with their children - because they have to be the fucking providers all the time.
Do you know how difficult that is? Always "providing" for the family but spending the least amount of time with them? That's something which some men are trying to change.
Buddha1 said:I have cited many evidences from scientific records of the wild life, although only a few from other sources (but they are there, e.g. evidences from mythology, from modern western culture and from traditional cultures), but I'm at it. You should realise that some prople make it hard for me to go on --- I am entangled in useless arguments.
john smith said:@ Buddha1,
Fuck that, youv failed to pay any attention, whatsoeva, to anyone elses argument, but your own, you relly do deserve this;
john smith said:Yep, just as i expected. The classical 'everyones against me' tactic, used by many who have found that their own argument is utterly baseless, if you were a man, you would be able to admit this!
john smith said:What, where the Holy Fuck is 'Americal'???
Buddha1 said:I sure am scared to meet real men!! Especially if you class yourself as a real man!!!
john smith said:Quite a contradiction, but i wouldnt expect much more from you.
john smith said:That, in itself is a weak statement.Let me reiterate.
john smith said:That part shows how weak you ENTIRE argument is.
Buddha1 said:Something which you have entirely failed to do.
Empty forceofchi said:i would say your pressuring us to be homosexual with all of your unethical gay threads .
nah seriously man if anybody is bieng pressured by anything, its natural desires to reproduce with the opposite sex,
im sorry for bieng straight buddha give me 10 lashes,
but dont get any ideas.
Huwy said:Nobody is denying that homosexuals in most cultures are subject to prejudice, ridicule, and homophobia, making their lives very difficult.
Buddha1, A lot of people agree there are some problems with the current state of our culture, but these claims you make are extreme.
C20 said:Exactly. Extreme claims that are actually counter-productive to his cause.
Rather than telling oppressed homosexuals that they are the enlightened ones among all the other men who have been castrated of their sexual desire for men by society, he should be pointing them (oppressed homosexuals) in the direction of support groups. If he was more accepting of the actual state of play in society rather than fabricating some sort of conspiracy against same sex relations in society as a whole, then he would be able to focus his efforts against the minority of bigots and bullies in society rather than tackle society as a whole, which on the whole doesn't add to the problem of bigotry and bullying as Bhuddah1 asserts.
I rest my case!Huwy said:Where is the complaint about parts of China aborting 90% of female foetuses?
Allow me time to disprove that!Huwy said:Obviously most men are going to be dependent on women for their romantic and sexual needs because most men are heterosexual.
Is that so! Thank you for that information. Adds to my list of evidences.Huwy said:Your not going to start referring to Mayan tribes in the rainforest who have fire-ant rituals and make the young boys eat the men's sperm, are you?
What makes you think you have the right to call me fag or gay, and I don't have the right to call you a wimp?john smith said:is definatly not abusing, threatening or ridicule, on a personal level!!
its also definatly relevant, tell me do you know the meaning of the wordRELEVANT ? The structure of your argument shows of the utter drivel you so continuously spout, by the way, well done.I can see that this thread, and your arguments within it, have ever so successfully managed to pursade people into your way of thinking, once again concratulations.
Bhuddah1 said:95% of men have STRONG sexual desire for other men
I would rather that you first deal with my contentions that I've laid down, and treat this statement just as my opinion if you don't want to believe it. None of my three main contentions are dependant on this statement, viz.c20H25N3o said:For the millionth time. Please back that up! If you proved this single assertion to everyone's satisfaction then it would be easier to put the rest of your posts into context.
I am NOT trying to be difficult. Would you rather your assertions were not challenged at all?peacec20
c20H25N3o said:1. Heterosexuality is unnatural in humans
Me: No it is not. It seems natural to me everywhere I look.
2. Heterosexuality is queer
Me: No it is not. It seems to be natures way of procreating a species.
3. Heterosexuality is harmful, unethical and immoral.
Me: I see no evidence of this. Sure there are bigots and bullies in every society but these people are perhaps insecure and you must not generalise about heterosexually biased people because of this minority. Generally speaking though, heterosexuality in and of itself is not harmful or unethical or immoral but rather the personal choice of most and it works!
peace
c20
Huwy said:Nobody is denying that homosexuals in most cultures are subject to prejudice, ridicule, and homophobia, making their lives very difficult.
That's quite a cunning move to, at one go, validate your stupid social concepts, and at the same time to marginalise what I'm saying as 'gay'. But that I'm afraid won't work!c20H25N3o said:Exactly. Extreme claims that are actually counter-productive to his cause.
Rather than telling oppressed homosexuals that they are the enlightened ones among all the other men who have been castrated of their sexual desire for men by society, he should be pointing them (oppressed homosexuals) in the direction of support groups. If he was more accepting of the actual state of play in society rather than fabricating some sort of conspiracy against same sex relations in society as a whole, then he would be able to focus his efforts against the minority of bigots and bullies in society rather than tackle society as a whole, which on the whole doesn't add to the problem of bigotry and bullying as Bhuddah1 asserts.
Buddha1 said:I'm not concerned about you. And I don't want to waste my time discussing what you think.
As individuals yes. Unless they can get evidence to show that the entire straight male population is genuinely heterosexual.c20H25N3o said:Me: Then what are you doing here soldier?
You: Cos I got no place else to go.
Bah! Are you going to ignore everybody who contradicts you?
Buddha1 said:As individuals yes. Unless they can get evidence to show that the entire straight male population is genuinely heterosexual.
.....and not to mention that there is no such thing as pressure to be heterosexual.
......and that men do not lie about their 'heterosexaulity' or have no reason to!
I think an absurd remark like that does not need to be answered. The rest when I give evidences.c20H25N3o said:As for there being pressure to be heterosexual. Well that's kind of a genetic imperative if we are to survive as a species. Willy in bum dont make no babies. No babies = end of species. End of species makes all this 'talk' rather irrelevant dont you think?c20
Buddha1 said:I think an absurd remark like that does not need to be answered. The rest when I give evidences.
Bhuddah1 said:Things like this cannot be proved with surveys and by asking. If you ask a person who is not 'gay-identified' he will never own up to his sexual need for men, and its understandable given the pressures and the negative consequences.