one_raven said:You sound like an abused girlfriend justifying staying with your man because "He loves me".
How in the hell am I abused?
Life is a learning experience that I'm grateful for. You realize that our perceptions are very different because you believe that this life is all there is, and I look forward to something else...something much better...utilizing what we've learned. An evolution if you will...you guys like that term don't you? Well there ya go.