Really?
Please quote him (chapter and verse) to show where you got this.
This is my truth, one truth that tells me that calling myself a Christian would have a predefined concept in others that is not truth. I cannot call myself anything since no concept defines me except just being human.
As per request, I quoted the "Gospel of Thomas":
"[Someone says] to him: Tell my brothers to divide the possessions of my father with me. || He says to him: Oh man, who made me a divider? || He turned to his Disciples, he says to them: I'm not a divider, am I?"
Really?
NIV Matthew 10:32 "Whoever acknowledges me before men, I will also acknowledge him before my Father in heaven. 33 But whoever disowns me before men, I will disown him before my Father in heaven.
34 "Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 For I have come to turn
" 'a man against his father,
a daughter against her mother,
a daughter-in-law against her motherinlaw—
36 a man's enemies will be the members of his own household.'[e]
37 "Anyone who loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; 38and anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. 39 Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.
That says nothing against what I said, here’s my interpretation of that passage:
If you follow the teachings of your father, or your mother, you are doomed.
If you follow anyone of your own family or anyone else for that matter, you are doomed.
You should only follow yourself, and that will put you against the whole world, starting with your family.
Example: The majority of the members of my family are Catholic, I am not since I was 12 years of age. That put me against my family, against their beliefs. My grandmother did not speak to me for a time.
I started living with my girl 1 year ago, and nobody in my family approved it, do you think I care what others think?
Do you seriously think Jesus was referring to an actual sword? If you do, then you are just as the rest of people that takes everything literally and not give space for the true teachings...
Jesus was talking about being yourself, not fighting each other. You need to carry the sword of your will to be yourself and not follow others.