Bebelina:
Abusive language should not be included in free speech, just as violence is not included in a free society.
Luckily, neither the UN Declaration of Human Rights nor the US Constitution uses such a strange definition of "free speech".
Xev, my problem with you, is that you have a problem with me. I was here before you. When you came, I first liked you, I thought you were funny. But then your personality got more and more deranged, saying nothing but insults and being condensending. You stopped being funny, and became just abusive.
I don't have any issues or problems with you. I occasionally find you to be rather cloying, but generally steer clear.
I've occasionally amused myself by a bit of piss-taking, and watched you get worked up over nothing.
Perhaps you have issues re: the way you relate to other women. I can offer you my sympathy now, and promise not to take advantage of these issues any longer.
However, should you continue on whatever strange jihad you have going against me, I shall be forced to withdraw my sympathy and offer only the back of my hand.
I'm not going on some qoute hunt to humour you, you know what you have said yourself, and playing innocent will not do.
Very well then, you cannot back up your assertions. An honourable woman would withdraw them.
I shall pretend that you did, so long as you do not repeat such baseless accusations.
Well, those were private messages to me, so I don't want to forward them to anybody, out of respect for those who sent them. So you have received nothing from Oxygen?
You may well be misinterpreting them. Oxygen and I have a month old conversation re: the applicability of profanity going.
Without revealing the contents, the gist of such was that, as we have some rather young members here, and as I am rather well - er - regarded, it would perhaps be best to refrain from the stronger profanities.
I acceded to such request.
I extend to you this olive branch yet again. You have my deepest sympathies, and I do hope that you are able to work out your issues some day. I promise to be much more tolerent in the future.