Gordon said:
One Raven - You seem to have got the correct answer out of a muddle of confusion or at least nearly!
A christian is a follower of Jesus Christ. As such he believes in the the life as detailed in the Gospels and thus that He was both Son of God and Son of Man (which is why Aryan beliefs as exemplified by JW's and others make them outside of christian doctrine).
If they are truly christian, they do try to follow what He did whilst acknowledging that He was perfect and they are not and so accepting that they will fail. This is what Jesus Himself said. No one is actually capable of following the Law (basically the Ten Commandments) and thus no one can ever make themselves worthy.
Phasmid said:
Being a Christian I try my best to live by Christ's teachings though I sometimes fall short since I'm not perfect. By living the way Christ directed I behave in a certain way and talk to people in a certain way. I respect people's beliefs at the same time. Obviously I disagree with them as no doubt many people will disagree with my post but I have enough respect for anyone simply to hear their opinion and disagree.
I have a problem with the "Well, Jesus was perfect, and we couldn't possibly expect to live up to his ideal example".
I am not saying that to be a "good" Christian, you have to be a perfect little Jesus clone, but frankly, I have yet to met someone who seems to even be trying.
Where are the teachings of Jesus found?
First of all, if you are discussing the teachings of Jesus, all the Bible, New and Old Testaments, can be completely discarded, except the four gospels.
Do you agree?
Everything beyond the four gospels in the New Testament, is the apologetic explanations of the founding fathers attemtping to codify, explain, explore and justify the teachings of Jesus.
The Old Testament, obviously, came before him. Except for some of his direct references to the Old Testament, regardless of how valuable you may think it is, it should be set aside when concerning yourself with Jesus' teachings.
I also reject the Gospel of John for several reasons, so I won't focus on them, but if you have a problem with that, I can understand and we can throw him into teh mix as well.
The Gnostic gospels? I think they have some real and qualifiable value, but I can certainly understand why a Chrsitian would reject them as well, and since I rejected John, we can leave them aside.
So we have the only accepted words of Jesus in the Synoptic Gospels.
Matthew, Mark and Luke.
Can we agree on this as a starting point of discussing what the actual words and teachings of Jesus was?
What did Jesus teach?
What he taught about living a virtuous life was not a whole lot different than what the Buddha taught.
Have integrity.
Love your neighbor.
Give to those who do not have.
Do not horde belongings or money.
Don't cheat on your spouse, nor have an affair with someone else's spouse.
They are all basic, simple rules regarding personal conduct in a cooperative community and a healthy, positive outlook.
Some of my favorite quotes (all from NIV)...
Matthew 6:1 "Be careful not to do your 'acts of righteousness' before men, to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven.
2 "So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. 3 But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4 so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.
5 "And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. 6 But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. 7 And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. 8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.
Matthew 19:16 Now a man came up to Jesus and asked, "Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?"
17 "Why do you ask me about what is good?" Jesus replied. "There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, obey the commandments."
18 "Which ones?" the man inquired.
Jesus replied, " 'Do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not give false testimony, 19 honor your father and mother,' and 'love your neighbor as yourself.'"
20 "All these I have kept," the young man said. "What do I still lack?"
21 Jesus answered, "If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me."
22 When the young man heard this, he went away sad, because he had great wealth.
23 Then Jesus said to his disciples, "I tell you the truth, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. 24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."
Matthew 9:9 As Jesus went on from there, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the tax collector's booth. "Follow me," he told him, and Matthew got up and followed him.
10 While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew's house, many tax collectors and "sinners" came and ate with him and his disciples. 11 When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, "Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and 'sinners'?"
12 On hearing this, Jesus said, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. 13 But go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice.' For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners."
Luke 6:37 "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. 38 Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."
39 He also told them this parable: "Can a blind man lead a blind man? Will they not both fall into a pit? 40 A student is not above his teacher, but everyone who is fully trained will be like his teacher.
41 "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 42 How can you say to your brother, 'Brother, let me take the speck out of your eye,' when you yourself fail to see the plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.
That's enough quotes for now.
Everyone who has ever condemned anyone to Hell for not being a Christian, is not a following Jesus.
Anyone who has not been wholly frugal, and has spent any more than necessary (for, say, a 42 inch flat screen TV, that luxury car, the extravagant home, the fourth video game system) rather than giving that money to the needy, is not following Jesus.
Anyone who lacks mercy for the afflicted, or does not act according to that mercy, is not following Jesus.
Anyone who has held a grudge, is not following Jesus.
Anyone who has saved money in the bank and ammassed more than he needs to live, rather than giving it to charity, is not following Jesus.
Anyone who wears their religion or piety on their sleeve, acts in a proud manner, holds their purity and chastity over someone else, makes it known the work they do or money they give to the needy, are not following Jesus.
Anyone who has used the words of Jesus to judge ANYONE but themselves, is not following Jesus.
No, no one is perfect and any good religion recognizes that fact and sets itself up as a path of self improvement.
However, to be on a path of self improvement you have to be taking steps towards your ideals.
There is quite a significant difference between finding it difficult to live up to the more stringent rules and codes of conduct in a religion and simply ignoring the ones that are inconvenient for your life and lifestyle.
If there is no work, no effort, no striving to reach the ideal, then they are not your ideals and you are just posturing, lying and hypocritical.
The VAST majority of self-professed "Christians" I have met do not read the Bible searching for truth or answers.
They already have their answers, they look to the Bible looking for verses and loopholes that will justify their already set points of view.
They don't read the Bible like believers and followers, they read the Bible like lawyers.
Claiming to be a Christian does not make you one.
I think actions and integrity rather than words and ideals define a person.
So, where is the line?
When do you cross the line from being an imperfect follower of Jesus to being a Hypo-Christian?
When you stop going to church? When you stop being repentant? When you steal on a regular basis? When you beat your children? When you commit your first murder? When you break all Ten Commandments?
Where do
you draw that line?
There is a difference between expecting perfection and expecting a real and tangible effort and hard work towards your ideal.
Don't you think?