Why is God so obsessed with sex?

Offhand, if my goal were authority and domination over an entire society and I were choosing my means of attainment, I would choose control of the sexual behavior of women aged 16 to 24 as my primary means.

Given that, I'd have the rest of the place pretty much handled.

So an obsession with sex on the part of any authoritarian body seems hardly at all mysterious.
 
i just found this thread..got in on page 17..forgive if i rehash some comments..

i don't think gods attitude with sex has anything to do with the physical..

i think it is a spiritual thing..we are supposed to think of sex as a special bond between husband and wife..something only they share..it is supposed to be a pleasure that we can only get from our spouse..so by seeking sex outside of marriage, we inadvertently devalue both sex and marriage.
 
but there is only God, or?
God and his energies - much like there is not justthe sun but the sun and heat, light etc
believing this does not mean that saying 'I am God' is necessarily good. On the other hand I am still trying to understand what the problem is if everything is God and portions have sex and portions say 'I am God.'
the problem is that it relegates them to an inferior existence on account of the dysfunctionalism

Certainly God does not have a problem. And if God is all there is, what is the problem then?
If we are dysfunctional we don't diminish anything but ourselves.


So God separated out parts of Godself. A Good state of unity was turned into a bad state of disunity by God.
Depends if you view free will as a curse ..... but then even to have an opinion of free will requires free will so I guess its a non-issue

And in this state God is less Good than before
why?
Although its probably not correct to term it "before", since you can't really say that a sun was a sun (in the full sense of the term) before it started manifesting heat and light ... in the same way, discussing a god that doesn't have a separated parts and parcels is a lesser definition since it doesn't have the potential to manifest free will outside of itself (which takes it down a notch or two on the omnipotent scale) ... you could also argue that it has no means for benevolence since it has zero opportunity for reciprocation .... and philosophically it is plagued by the problem on how it is possible for separation to manifest (as we are currently experiencing it, with identities and all) in which there is only one radical homogeneous existence underlying it all. IOW there is no accounting for variety (except to say that it is all illusion .... which of course doesn't explain how it came to overcome "god" if you ant to carve out a niche for us to come under the umbrella of the term)
and the goal is for these comprimised parts of God to undue this original act of God's, and to do this it helps to control sexual urges?
the goal is not to lose one's individuality but to use it properly. IOW its the nature of being a separated part and parcel that one has a constitutional nature (namely that of service to the whole). To be made without the possibility of rejection of this nature is to be made without the possibility of free will, which of course is a requirement for service
Doesn't this all strike you as a mess that could have been avoided?
Sure it can be avoided, but you are looking at the mess in a manner that wants to absolve all wrong doing from the living entity. I mean from one perspective, god could have refrained from manifesting individual with free will (even though it would make for a lesser god) and relegating the off the wall behavior of the minority to a virtual realm that eventually reforms them .... and from another perspective, the problem can be fixed by the living entity in the grip of illusion reforming themselves (which would also require free will BTW)

Why the hang up?
Why would God cut off one of his fingers - I thought hand was not humble enough? And how can God be compromised?
generally we don't have the experience of our hand manifesting free will. Rather the analogy was meant to illustrate how the functionalism of a part renders it invaluable and its dysfunctionalism renders it worthless. This is both from the perspective of the whole and the part (IOW from our perspective, a separated hand is useless and from a hand's perspective - if it was to have one - its useless since they have no capacity for vigor or enjoyment outside of the whole)
It seems like a different kind of insanity, but the idea that God has lopped off so many of God's parts and then set up the task that these parts figure out how to rejoin
It occurred at the hand (bad pun) of free will. Like suppose the hand suddenly decided one day "why am I engaged in placing food in the mouth? From now on I am going to eat the cake myself." ...... the problem being that it has no capacity to eat or derive energy from food without the mouth.

I am not sure I want to have a utilitarian view of sex. I know that was a bit sneaky here - iow that is not necessarily what you are implying, but still, with that proclamation of sneakiness, I am interesting in your response, since I think some kind of objectification of utilization of the self is implicit here, even it is not quite utilitarianism.
In a broad general sense, a utilitarian view of sex is steeped in a sense of duty (sattva guna). A pleasure seeking view of sex is steeped in a sense of selfishness (raja guna). There's probably no need to discuss tama guna at this point. As long as one is under the grip of illusion they are acting in or between these modes.
Sex life under the modes of nature is superseded by spiritual perfection. IOW the whole thing of sex life giving rise to (or even engaged in the act of while trying to avoid) progeny in the pursuit of pleasure operates exclusively in the material world where everyone is decked out with a corporeal existence. IOW its the nature of material existence to take something in the spiritual world and pervert it in a manner that binds one to attachment to the temporary. I guess it depends what one finds more objectionable - the consequences of attachment to the temporary or incorporating a sense of duty within one's sense of pleasure.
could be, but in any case we both know there are examples of people who do not associate spiritual sex with drugs.
as I said, depends on your location.
But even with or without the drugs, the common usage of the term seems to have more to do about selfishness (ie new positions, new partners, etc) than a sense of duty.

Mention the kama sutra (which actually has nothing to do with spiritual sex and everything to do with the material variety) and you probably won't find a conclusion like this :

Dharma, Artha and Kama are aims of everyday life, while Moksha is release from the cycle of death and rebirth. The Kama Sutra (Burton translation) says:

"Dharma is better than Artha, and Artha is better than Kama. But Artha should always be first practised by the king for the livelihood of men is to be obtained from it only. Again, Kama being the occupation of public women, they should prefer it to the other two, and these are exceptions to the general rule." (Kama Sutra 1.2.14)[12]

Of the first three, virtue is the highest goal, a secure life the second and pleasure the least important. When motives conflict, the higher ideal is to be followed. Thus, in making money virtue must not be compromised, but earning a living should take precedence over pleasure, but there are exceptions.

In childhood, Vātsyāyana says, a person should learn how to make a living; youth is the time for pleasure, and as years pass one should concentrate on living virtuously and hope to escape the cycle of rebirth.[13] Also the Buddha preached a Kama Sutra, which is located in the Atthakavagga (sutra number 1). This Kama Sutra, however, is of a very different nature as it warns against the dangers that come with the search for pleasures of the senses.
So we need to get down to brass tacks and say what that attitude is. But note: an attitude is not a set of rules about behavior. Means may be, but I wonder why attitude is not enough. Or, futher, a lack of bad attitudes and a faith in one's desire in the absence of these.
The attitude of material illusion is "I am this body and everything in relation to it is mine"
Seems like an incredible amount of unnecessary suffering was created by God in this scenario. First separating out parts, then sending teachers that will of course only reach a certain amount of separated parts in each generaton and life after life of suffering just to return to a state that for the life of me I cannot see why God decided to shatter in the first place.
reciprocation is the pinnacle of pleasure for an individual with free will - regardless whether they are fallible or infallible
But ironically so much of religion teaches us to go against the spontaneous unity of body we are. People often end up stiff, controlled and not spontaeous once they go into the various disciplines out there.
the body is unified?
If we ever want to go against the consequences of a spontaneous act there is probably a good reason for going against the spontaneous act in the first place.

They may have flexible bodies from Yoga - if they end up in that position - but their movements - often especially of their faces, seems to lack flow and integration, because so much is seen as being problematic about being out of control.
astanga yoga is not celebrated as the yoga for this age (actually its about three yugas out - which makes it more outdated than wearing woolen full length bathers to the beach). Folding up like a croissant can't solve much.
I do not see practitioners as heading toward unity even in themselves, but rather become more and more jailer and jailed, controler and controlled.
I can't see how absolving issues of duty can lead to anything but suffering

Two beings instead of one.
Since matter is changing at practically every moment, it becomes even more diverse if one is drawing up the complete picture of one's self from it

I cannot see how this aids God's unity.

In fact I am quite sure it is a hinder.
Basically the unity begins at the point of desire, much like the unity of the body begins at the point that the hand is agreeable to placing food in the mouth.

IOW the radical difference between a material and spiritual sense of self is one's service attitude to god.

This tends to grate us the wrong way because material identity dictates that there is nothing worse than being in a position of service
 
Originally Posted by Doreen
So God gave these bodies with all their desires and then told us that many of these desires were wrong and the thoughts around these were impure. How odd that God made us? He could have made us like plants - seeds wafting on the air. Or made us procreate with parthenogenesis? No need for sex at all. But instead God makes two sexes and they - in most cases - are attracted to the other sex, this is the natural reaction they have given the bodies they have and the urges these bodies have AND THEN they get a bunch of rules to block that.

Very odd.

It's like giving your kid a bicycle and a mind that likes riding a bicycle and then saying you can only bike on that street between 3 and 5 and if you desire otherwise - have impure thoughts - you are a sinner.

Some dad.

For some people their addictions kill them or destroy them via slow death.
 
For example: someone who love sugar and eats ONLY pixie stix every day is not a healthy person. NOW add another human to the equation and things really go haywire.
 
Doreen,

So God gave these bodies with all their desires and then told us that many of these desires were wrong and the thoughts around these were impure.


People weren't always addicted to sex in the way they are today.


How odd that God made us? He could have made us like plants - seeds wafting on the air.


He did make plants, and we have probably been all of them innumerable times over
(if you look at it from hinduism pov).


jan.
 
So things that do have these qualities are outside God?
not really

Material qualities (sattva rajas and tamas) are a shadow of spiritual qualities (suddha sattva)

How would you categorize your shadow?
as part of you or separate from you?
or both?
 
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But doesn't it seem odd that one of your reasons for rules around sex is that there are diseases, but God made the diseases. So we come with bodies with desires and are placed where there are diseases so it is better we do not follow the urges we were given by God.

As far as discomfort in sex, what are you referring to. I have never seen religions address this very much.

Incest as a problem could have been avoided any number of ways. We could have been made to find this act revulsive. In fact most seem to. I certainly didn't need a religious text or deity to tell me about this.


I have to mention the most noteworthy problem in sexual relationship which is promiscuity or cheating.
 
physical is just one component of sex, you also have emotional,mental and in a perfect world spiritual content.


I understand however physical, mental, spiritual are tied up in this case and also God created both physical and mental aspects of sex that's why He has something to say about sex, for physical and spiritual reasons.
 
physical is just one component of sex, you also have emotional,mental and in a perfect world spiritual content.

Since I find no evidence that there is such a thing as a soul or spirit (All our being evidently is in our physical brains. Take away the brain and all aspects of that person are gone. How can one live without a brain? We wouldn't have the brain in the first place if that was possible. Brain damage is interesting- What happens to major cases of brain damage- are the souls ALSO exhibiting signs of slurred speech and motor movements, too? Sheesh....) I cannot discuss a spiritual effect in regards to physical joining.

But religious beliefs are not always hokey.

Scientifically, wanton sex and those deprived of sex suffer inhibited growth and development.
Both cause the person to devalue it or, like a drug, always be left wanting more- wanting better intensity and so on.
Psychologically speaking, it's not unusual for people to become in-sensitized to sex or lose perspective on it. They lose the "rush" and try to find it in some interesting ways.

Each person has their own and what people do is their own business. However, there are a lot of cases out there of people being extremely unhealthy in their fetishes. This behavior can be justified in a myriad of ways, but in the end, those of us that don't partake in such activities are left scratching our heads and wondering where that person went off...

Sex between two people that is kept simple and strong with emotion exhibits the healthiest results.
There are some folks that can go beyond that and there are some folks that to go beyond that leads to self destructive behavior.
 
when you have relationships dissolve or not even manifest in terms of single parenting

That's due to sex for pleasure rather than reproduction, is it?

Do all relationships that break up do so because of societal attitudes to casual sex, in your opinion?
 
Since I find no evidence that there is such a thing as a soul or spirit (All our being evidently is in our physical brains. Take away the brain and all aspects of that person are gone. How can one live without a brain? We wouldn't have the brain in the first place if that was possible. Brain damage is interesting- What happens to major cases of brain damage- are the souls ALSO exhibiting signs of slurred speech and motor movements, too? Sheesh....) I cannot discuss a spiritual effect in regards to physical joining.


The soul requires the body for perception.
 
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