most learn from others,some directly..I contend that we first learn about God from people, not from God directly.
why would taking responsibility for your own beliefs be a meta-religion?Such "taking responsibility" would be an act of meta-religion. Meta-religion is at odds with religion.
(i believe what i believe because I believe it,not because someone told me to believe it..)
i think at this point you are reaching..Secondly, what you seem to mean by "taking responsibility for one's beliefs" is tantamount to making things up.
so they (religion) would have you believe..If one's beliefs about God are not in line with an authoritative theistic tradition, then one is quite likely making things up.