So, you admit to indoctrinating your children with ideas of right and wrong. You just rebel against the messenger - not the message. So, why do you hate Jesus?
The real question is: Do we need religion to tell us right from wrong? I think not. Humans have morals, empathy, and conscience and all of the things necessary to decide right from wrong, without the need for religion.
I don't hate Jesus, I just wish people weren't so in your face about him. Which is really just another form of violence - impressing your will/views/judgements forcefully upon others. If I were going to be religious it would have to be Buddhism, they seem the least fervent of religious practitioners - it's either take it or leave it, they don't care either way.
I consider myself agnostic. I'd like there to be some organising theme in life that gives reason, and transcends the physicality of existence, but so far I'm unimpressed with the evidence.
And lastly, I must confess too, that I didn't have the patience to read the entire thread, so sorry if I'm reiterating old ideas...