Children at play
I do like the implications that come with this discussion; you'll notice that humanity is frequently compared to toddlers. Very apropos.
Just a question, and to borrow from Greywolf:
Think of the situation for a moment. He was put in the middle of paradise, had free range of the whole thing and was told he can do what ever just dont eat from one tree in the whole garden. And despite being told this by his creator and if not creator than the sole person that was there before he was, he decided to do it anyways. How more deliberate can u get?
What? That's what we get for lying to children. It's just as true today as it was then. Take a look at drugs--turns out, the more you
lie to children about drugs, the more likely they are to start once they
find out you lied.
Think about it:
• Marijuana: It's illegal, it gives you cancer, it wrecks your brain, it screws up your children
(1) Illegal - one day, the child will come to understand a simple concept:
If on Friday you declare illegal what was permissible on Thursday, you will have a sizable number of criminals on your hands come Friday morning. When kids learn that marijuana became illegal for commerce and tax reasons, and not health or other more vital reasons, they lose respect for legal boundaries.
(2) Gives you cancer - one day, the child will come to learn that there is no conclusive info on what dope does. At this point, they're resorting to the claim that pot smoke contains "at least sixty potential carcinogens." In other words, they
might be carcinogens, but we don't know quite how yet and can't prove it. And then they find out about the killer statistic:
nobody dies from pot. Such a realization devastates a child's respect for the lies and the lying liars who told them.
(3) Wrecks your brain - one day, the child will learn a simple question:
As compared to what? It's hard to imagine something you set on fire before adding to your bloodstream can be good for you, but once you grow up scared of f@cking hot dogs, realize how much soda that strips paint and shines chrome you've consumed, and watched the adults around you clamber about for coffee and booze, once you've heard about the secondhand smoke and the acid rain and the EMF's and the air pollution and the asbestos and the arsenic in the groundwater ... I mean, really .... oh, gee, dope messes with your brain.
As compared to what?!
(4) Screws up your children - You know those warning labels on
booze? They didn't really exist on liquor for a number of years in the US until the sister of one of my childhood neighbors sued the distilleries after her child was born with FAS. Apparently, she couldn't figure out that drinking over a fifth of whiskey a day (I kid you not) might possibly be harmful for the fetus; apparently, no doctor mentioned it to her, either. But hey ... distilleries have deeper pockets than doctors, even. But yes, the actual reason we have warning labels on booze at all is because a woman couldn't put down her bourbon. Or, rather, she could put it down all too well. And depending on when the kid knocks up a girl, he might find out early how ridiculous the dietary recommendations for a pregnant woman are. Compared to daily routine ... well, strangely it's the booze and caffeine most women I know have a problem with (and nicotine in some cases), but I know so few people who eat a whole lot of bacon or anything else like that. But the list of foods my partner was supposed to avoid was fairly impressive. The thing is that anything you do is going to f@ck up your children to a certain degree. It's why it's so easy to bag on women for botched pregnancies and why many women extend guilt and grief beyond the biochemical requisite into the realm of self-destruction. This is not to suggest that pregnant women should smoke excessive amounts of dope while pregnant. In fact, smoking dope at all isn't really a good idea. But on top of it all it might occur to the child, somewhere in there, that it's too expensive to eat the stuff, which is actually a good thing to do. And in all that head-scratching the child might come to reiterate a previously-considered question. It screws up your children? As compared to what?
The point being that Bob might look at it simply:
I told him not to do drugs and he did them anyway. Therefore I'm kicking the ungrateful little criminal out of my house. Does it matter that the basis upon which the rule is instituted is incorrect, dishonest, or not reflective of reality?
There are many reasons to not "eat the fruit." As humans, "Because I say so" is recognized as the weakest and most frequently invoked reason for prohibition. Beyond that, however, given the more legitimate reasons to not eat the fruit, what is someone supposed to think when their entire arsenal of reasons against eating the fruit turn out to be incorrect?
And so it was in the beginning. God said, "Don't smoke it because it will kill you." The Serpent said, "It
won't kill you." Having no basis upon which to openly mistrust the Serpent, for after all this is starry-eyed, innocent humanity at issue, the reason behind the rule was disarmed. That the Serpent was correct is a
huge point. It demonstrates that the point of a relationship with God is to obey God regardless of what reality shows you. It is this unwillingness to go marching like the ants that separates us from God--an issue of design and the immediate will of God.
To make the points specifically:
God did not "let" Adam and Eve be "deceived" by the Serpent.
• The Serpent did not deceive Adam and Eve
• The "fall" of humanity was God's will
• The offense against God is based originally in God's choice to lie to Adam and Eve about cause and effect
• All Adam and Eve ever did wrong was
think
• Thinking is apparently
not part of God's design for human beings, therefore--
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All Adam and Eve ever did wrong was exist according to God's design.
If you lie to children, all you will get in return is exactly what you ask for. And I don't see why God has such a problem with that in the Bible. After all, why should God be so pissed that He got what He wanted?