gb-so you treat others in a way you hope they won't treat you?
No.
I'm saying that the standards of what some people (including some Christians) consider "good treatment" are too low for me to sink to. What those people call "good" and wish would be done to them - I consider immoral, bad, wrong.
For example, giving unsolicited advice. Some people think that giving unsolicited advice is a good thing and wish that they would get unsolicited advice. I make an effort not to give unsolicited advice. So I don't treat those people the way they wish to be treated.