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Enmos
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No, because it is the responsibility of both to use protection.
Enmos
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kmguru
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Don't have sex...or use protection or demand the recent medical report...before having sex. Stop one night stands from the club. That is where this spreads...
But what if the person is married and gets it from a cheating spouse. I would think you could get extra in the divorce for it.
Or at the very least you could sue for pain and suffering.
no but, if you catch somthing like aids from a partner and they know they have the disease and they give it to you on purpose then you can have them arrested
Or you could wear a helmet, and go back door, or as I like to call it, The Contingency Vagina.
kmguru
Staff member
If you (or your friend) got it, you can not do much about it. Money is not a substitute for pain and suffering. Just get healthcare. Getting mad at the person would not solve anything due to their stupidity. If the spouse is a good provider, punish him by asking something that you want. If the spouse has a habit of doing this, then it is a different matter....weigh in all the factors. Anger reduces good judgement due to reduction in blood flow to the brain.
No, they already got divorced due to his infidelity. Now she is remarried and it was found during a pregnancy exam. So I was wondering if she had any options besides just shrugging it off.
Orleander, Herpies is not life threatning
Assult legilation covers ONLY unwanted contact or the threat of unwanted contact
Conduct endangering life must ENDANGER life
There WAS a case of a guy with HIV who KNEW he had HIV who slept around without protection and was charged with conduct endagering life.
However herpies is not a life threatning disease, its a good idea to be careful because its uncomfetable and so you dont want to pass it on but its not going to kill you
That being said i wonder what would hapen if someone delbretly spread Hep
Assult legilation covers ONLY unwanted contact or the threat of unwanted contact
Conduct endangering life must ENDANGER life
There WAS a case of a guy with HIV who KNEW he had HIV who slept around without protection and was charged with conduct endagering life.
However herpies is not a life threatning disease, its a good idea to be careful because its uncomfetable and so you dont want to pass it on but its not going to kill you
That being said i wonder what would hapen if someone delbretly spread Hep
i would say quite a while. of course im basing the more common form of Herpes - the cold sores, that are just about impossible not to get. everyone i know gets them, except for me and mom. There's no way i don't carry it though. which brings me to my next point. just becuase hubby isn't "infected" topically dosn't mean your curiosity isn't true, he might just be a carrier who isn't affected.
kmguru
Staff member
I really did not think there are options to go after the ex...he will deny everything. The only option is a C-section for the baby only if the doctor recommends. Normally in the majority of the U.S. states you can only get married if you test for negative for VD and AIDS. But I do not think they test for Herpes Simplex.
How does she know, she got Herpes in the past marriage? Could it be it happned in the present marriage?
Also, for the shake of the baby, she should meditate:
http://www.sciforums.com/showpost.php?p=1750763&postcount=24
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Her current husband came back negative. Her ex not only has herpes he also has hepetitis.
I feel so bad for her. This affects the marriage HUGELY. Every time they have sex she could pass it on to him.
I honestly don't know how I would react if I were in his shoes.
I agree with Kmguru,
orlander, its possable to have sex (without a condom) for years and NEVER pass it on. Firstly she needs to get treatment, then you just dont have unprotected sex when there is an outbreak and that in combination with the corect treatment will protect him. Tell her to SEE A DOCTOR about managing the condition because its quite manageable
orlander, its possable to have sex (without a condom) for years and NEVER pass it on. Firstly she needs to get treatment, then you just dont have unprotected sex when there is an outbreak and that in combination with the corect treatment will protect him. Tell her to SEE A DOCTOR about managing the condition because its quite manageable
She has. She's dealing with the medical side of it. But as a best friend, I'm helping her deal with the emotional side of it.
here it is, years after the divorce and she is still having to deal with his crap, and now it may affect her child and her current marriage. Rgae doesn't even come close to describing how she feels. And a lot of guilt.
here it is, years after the divorce and she is still having to deal with his crap, and now it may affect her child and her current marriage. Rgae doesn't even come close to describing how she feels. And a lot of guilt.