What confounds me about people that don't understand relativity is the fact that they fail to grasp the fact that it's all about RELATIVE things! It compares in NO WAY to what people think about "ordinary" conditions - Euclidean geometry and Newtonian physics. They cannot unwrap their heads from "ordinary" everyday experience long enough to see how relativity works.
If they could, all the difficulties about clocks would immediately vanish. The very FIRST thing they should put some effort into understanding is frames of reference and it's actually not that hard to learn. But they try to get ahead of the learning process and thus become lost before they really ever start.
There's no mystery at all as to which of a set of clocks runs slower than the other. That can be understood without having to refer to math at all.
Here's a clear and simple way to do that: Two clocks sitting side by side will show no difference in time. However, if one is accelerated - in reference to the other - it will tick more slowly. How do we know is isn't the first one that runs slower? Simple - which of the two actually underwent acceleration? That's THE one that will always be running slower. So one more time... What happened to the first clock? Answer: nothing - and it remains unchanged. What happened to the second clock? Answer: It underwent acceleration and did NOT remain unchanged as a result! So it, and only it, now runs slower.
If they could, all the difficulties about clocks would immediately vanish. The very FIRST thing they should put some effort into understanding is frames of reference and it's actually not that hard to learn. But they try to get ahead of the learning process and thus become lost before they really ever start.
There's no mystery at all as to which of a set of clocks runs slower than the other. That can be understood without having to refer to math at all.
Here's a clear and simple way to do that: Two clocks sitting side by side will show no difference in time. However, if one is accelerated - in reference to the other - it will tick more slowly. How do we know is isn't the first one that runs slower? Simple - which of the two actually underwent acceleration? That's THE one that will always be running slower. So one more time... What happened to the first clock? Answer: nothing - and it remains unchanged. What happened to the second clock? Answer: It underwent acceleration and did NOT remain unchanged as a result! So it, and only it, now runs slower.