So for emotional reasons.Reason #1: I am perfectly content with being an atheist. I keep running into people who somehow have a problem with this, and they have reliably been the biggest dickheads I have ever seen. Atheism is my comfort zone. I feel secure there.
This would make you an achristian.Reason #2: I am not overwhelmingly impressed with the apologetics I have seen for Christianity.
This would not be an argument. Perhaps a threat or an outburst.Reason #3: If you see "Reason #2" and you think, "I am defending theism, not Christianity," go and burn in Hell because you are a piece of shit.
This also sounds like you are achristian and determine beliefs bases on physiological reactions.Reason #4: I don't feel like I need to be "saved." I actually have very low stress levels.
This is heading towards atheism.Reason #5: For some strange reason, I am not really bothered by the belief that I am not going to get to have an afterlife. Frankly, I prefer to stay that way.
Achristian.Reason #6: I have read the Bible, and it really is a vexing thing to read. You have to do a lot of back-referencing to understand some of it. Well, I managed to get through it, and it looks pretty man-made to me. If you read it and feel differently, that is up to you.
Likely achristian, but even here many christians base their beliefs on experiences. You may doubt they have had these or correctly interpreted them, but, nevertheless, the whole blind faith concept really on deals with a subset of religion.Reason #7: I have a cautious, conservative personality, and the idea of "blind faith" doesn't sit very well with me. It goes in the same category as body modification.
I am not sure this is a reason to be something, but I can see it as a reason not to change. I think this is, actually, an excellent point.Reason #8: Atheists have the same bets as anyone else on having the special favor a mysterious, immortal being. If you ask me, you have be a really bigoted asshole to not be able to see this, and I am being very harsh and judgmental here. My "bets" are just as good as anyone elses.
This is also a good point. One person's experience is generally not compelling for a second person. It may make perfect sense for the first person to draw certain conclusion AND AT THE SAME TIME make perfect sense for the second person to remain unconvinced or skeptical.Reason #9: So-called "religious experiences" sound like a mild seizure to me. When I tell people this, they try to claim that I don't understand what it is, and they try to claim that it is something special and different. Well, it is one thing to claim this, and it is something completely different to get someone like me to believe it. I am a stodgy kind of guy, so I am not very easy to persuade when it comes to this out-there stuff.
This is a weaker argument. If someone tells you that meditation can lead to more relaxed reactions to stressful situationsReason #10: If you tell me that I have to believe in your religion to get my proof for it, thank you: suddenly I know that I should never trust you under any circumstances. I should never lend you money because you won't pay it back. I should never sign a contract with you because you would violate it and ignore the court summons. I tend to avoid dealings with the kinds of people who employ bullshit arguments in the name of their beliefs. There is usually something deeply wrong with their morals.
a lot of babbling about why or why not
is just a waste of time.
The same could be said for what one should do with one's center of gravity in a martial art or how to work with negative space in painting.
Sometimes following certain practices can make something much clearer. In fact one can experience certain things if one does certain things that one can not if one does not. This holds for a wide variety of secular activities and there is no reason to assume this might not be the case for religious ones.
However I do think it is presumptuous to tell you what you should do. If you are content, they should leave you alone. If you run to them and say you are miserable and ask for advice, then perhaps they could chime in with suggestions about prayer, etc.
You could always start telling them how they should floss or what dietary changes they should make. Keep steering the conversation over to healthy fats vs. unhealthy ones. Keep the focus on their nutrition and your concern for them.
Perhaps they will 'get' the parallel.
But even if they don't it should be fun.