water said:
I am certainly not your therapist, and don't want to be!
I also didn't expect you to answer those questions, they were meant for your introspection. But I also didn't want to lead you in any way, so I refrained from saying "But you don't have to answer this here."
I just don't have a problem with being honest water. I know where you were trying to lead me but the answer is not that "I'm searching for something missing in my life." as much as you probably expected me to be. I'm quite happy with where I'm at regarding religion and with life in general. In fact I'm the most content person I know.
The thing I find stunning in many people (and sometimes in you as well, I mean no offense though), is that they insist talking to people who have failed to answer their questions.
You're off track, at least in my case. I'm not looking for anyone to resolve the issue for me, I'm quite capable of doing so myself. In fact I have, although I am always open to considering new ideas, evidence, arguments, and points of view.
As I've already mentioned I am here to discuss things. I find it irritating when someone who presumably is here to discuss things too repeatedly refuses to even consider what I am saying. Honestly, this thread has been like talking to the television. Which I find upsetting because if I was looking for that I'd be watching television instead of earnestly attempting to convey my thoughts to other people which requires some effort.
By all means, if someone wants to simply state that they don't know what a soul is or how it might interact with the world but they believe in souls anyway, go right ahead. But no one here has done that. They keep asserting that Boris's argument is invalid and then refuse to discuss why.
The initial post was exploring the problems that certain aspects of the idea of a soul generate. The theme is one that has been going on for several centuries now. Religion claims things are a certain way and then science comes along and doesn't find what religion has claimed we should find. So the claims change, apparently in a constant retreat from what was claimed to be truth to some other, modified, claim. Till at some point the claims don't even seem to make any sense. Apparently, for instance, no one can tell me what a soul is because no one knows. So Jan, ellion, et al aren't arguing from any actual position, they just don't want to address the points that Boris brought. Jan even has the temerity to ask me to provide his argument for him.
It is the psychological approaches people take in their religious quests that I find more interesting than the actual questions they ask.
I'm not on a religious quest. I completed mine. I developed my own philosophical stance that allows me to be content, productive, and generally well centered. But I am still inquisitive. I read voraciously and enjoy discussing issues here as well as in real life. I speak honestly and matter-of-factly. I tend to be assertive because it generates a better response. But I expect people to be honest in return or at least do me the courtesy of not pretending to commit to a discussion when they're doing anything but.
This forum has generated some of the best discussions regarding religion I have ever come across. But people need to be willing to commit to the discussion and not go off wailing or plugging their ears and yelling, "wrong, wrong, wrong" when they come across something they don't like.
~Raithere