I did not. I pointed out that you had recommended - as a matter of being a responsible adult, a responsibility - that a woman take precautions against rape whenever she "antipates that she might be raped". I invited you (several times now) to put some reasonable limits on that, specifically lift your assigned responsibilities, avoid burdening women with rape risk management in the great majority of their lives both waking and sleeping, by establishing situations in which women need not anticipate that they might be raped - you have failed to do that, over the course of several posts quoting the very question and ostensibly dealing with that very issue. So the obvious conclusion has been reinforced by your repeated posting.lg said:I never said the presence of a man automatically establishes a course of risk management for a woman.
You did
In the meantime, while you are somehow preparing detailed analysis and contextual understanding that does not involve or even imply any comparison to the situation in the US, we note that it was not posted in comparison but as a counterexample to your ridiculous assertion that advocating for precautionary behavior is never oppressive.billvon said:I don't think that the situation in those countries is comparable to the situation in the US, and that the reason why rape victims in those countries are treated the way they are, requires some more detailed analysis and contextual understanding.
It is, quite often, normally, and cannot be assumed otherwise. Several posters here have noted that the failure of the precaution advocates here to put any limits on the scope of their recommendations, combined with the pervasiveness of the risk their precauations are recommended for, directly implicates them in advocating for a quite repressive society. In their cultural milieu, which is a major influence on us all, rape functions as an enforcer of their world views and rapists echo their descriptions and claimed norms. It is, as wynn noted, a fairly sinister approach - it creates a fairly ugly enforcement mechanism for their world views while preserving what politicians call "deniability" for themselves.
Deniability doesn't work as well around here. If you don't like that description, you cannot simply deny it - you have to argue against it, to deal with the evidence and argument presented for it.
It is very easy to provide situations in which no one recommends that I take precautions against car theft (my employee parking spot, the church parking lot, the driveway of my house, etc etc etc). In these situations I am socially unburdened by anyone's expectations that as a responsible adult I have anticipated the theft of my car and undertaken precautionary behaviors as well as an attitude of wariness. Likewise kidnapping - I almost never have to think about, let alone take precautions against, that risk, to be considered a responsible adult. And in my case the situations in which I am expected to anticipate and guard against assault are very few and long between - almost my entire life is completely free of that burden.lg said:For instance just try and give a scenario where a car owner can expect not to have their car stolen? Or a scenario where one can expect not to get kidnapped? Or a scenario where one can expect not to get assaulted?
You appear to have confused recommending oppressive precautions for others in almost every aspect of their lives, as a condition of their being a responsible adult, with taking precautions oneself in perceived situations of hazard.billvon said:And again, confused people often cannot tell the difference between taking precautions against being assaulted and apologizing for rape. They are not even close to the same thing.