I am talking about the scope, in real life, of the responsibility you assign to women for taking precautions against the threat of rape. The context is real life, in which for example (among other considerations) most rapists are male acquaintances of their victims. I want a clear statement about the area of a woman's real life in which you do not expect her (as a matter of responsibility no less, see past postings) to take continual precautions against anticipated threats of rape.
It's still not clear how you come to ask such a thing. It should be a no-brainer that people generally, ideally seek to protect themselves, and eachother.
Perhaps you believe that
the only reason ever why anyone would give anyone (unsolicited) advice about self-protection, is in an effort to exculpate the advice-giver and/or the (prospective) perpetrator, in an effort to place the whole responsibility on the (prospective) victim.
Perhaps you believe that it is impossible that anyone should or would warn anyone about a danger purely for benevolent, altruistic reasons.
Two scenarios:
One: You walk down a street. Thirty feet ahead of you you see an uncovered, unprotected manhole. Then you see that from the other direction, a person is walking fast, talking on the phone. They are walking straight toward the manhole, and they don't seem to notice it. So you call out to them "Stop! Watch your step!"
Two: A friend of yours, while walking fast and talking on the phone, fell into an uncovered, unprotected manhole, and sustained some injuries. You visit the friend in the hospital. After you hear what happened, you say to the friend "What were you thinking?! Why didn't you watch where you're going?!"
Do you think that saying "Stop! Watch your step!" and "What were you thinking?! Why didn't you watch where you're going?!" are examples of blaming the victim and of trying to exculpate the municipal authorities because they didn't maintain the street properly?
That misses the issue. Which point should that be, for a responsible woman, according to these guys?
You seem to think we are trying to argue a case like "Enter the cage with wild animals at your own risk and discretion. We, the management of the ZOO, carry no responsibility for what happens to you if you do enter the cage with wild animals." We are not.
Again, it should be a no-brainer that people generally, ideally seek to protect themselves, and eachother.
Already that example violates the expectations of many misogynistic and oppressive societies, such as Saudi Arabia's, who also operate on the assigning of precautionary responsibility to women.
I don't think that the situation in those countries is comparable to the situation in the US, and that the reason why rape victims in those countries are treated the way they are, requires some more detailed analysis and contextual understanding.
Generally, in some legal systems, legal sanctions primarily function as a warning to others in order to deter them from endangering themselves and others; those sanctions aren't so much intended to punish or reform the person on whom they are carried out.