seagypsy said:
Why do you assume it was PM between me and you?
I believe I was quite clear when I did not know what PM's you are talking about and since I do not chat to you via PM, it obviously has nothing to do with me.
Having said that, how unfortunate for the recipient of that PM, who it appears from your vitriolic spray, may have trusted you enough to tell you something personal about themselves and that is your response..
The entirety. Why do you bother posting links to posts that are long as hell. But not point out directly exactly where the answers are. I can link you to a page out of your diary, if it were posted publicly, and claim you confesses to being a transsexual, but unless I can point out the actual words that prove it, my claims would have no validity. And so it stands here. Your links are worthless since they do not quote the specific remarks in answer to my questions.
You asked for links.
Let me refresh your memory
of your own post:
seagypsy said:
Where? Links? you declaring something so doesn't make it true.
I provided you with the links.
Also, you should pay particular attention to this:
"12. If you ask another member for evidence, be prepared to read the information that he or she provides for you. Don’t claim that evidence has not been provided just because you didn’t take the effort to read it."
From
this site's rules and posting standards.
Just because you are either unable or incapable of reading and comprehending it is not my problem.
I can say the same about you.
That I want to upset you?
Considering you entered this thread upset before I had even spoken to you...
Seagypsy, you seem to want something something..
Suffice to say, if you are frustrated with something, don't expect others to feed your need to conflict or attention. I have responded to you calmly and politely. You have made spurious accusations at me, made some bizarre attack on my personal life and then apologised for it while saying it wasn't really an apology, and then attempted to deny it was even aimed at me, you have been rude and vulgar and the level of dishonesty displayed by you has been, well, astounding. You have also made claims that if any pregnant woman reading this thread paid attention to, could endanger her life if she actually took you seriously.
I do not particularly care what you have going on, which
you advised earlier was apparently the cause of your stress. It is of no concern to me, with this thread or this forum.
And neither can I, so why don't we just drop the accusations of emotional instability and respond with actual data, or links that relate to the actual topic at hand? And remaining honorable while doing it.
I provided the links. Just because you cannot read or understand it is not my concern or issue.
No asking me to calm down isn't what is suppressing. Asking me to leave the debate IS.
I asked you to step back, until you felt calm enough to return.
Do you understand the difference?
It sure is. And so is your claim that a fetus is not human until it has fully exited your vagina. That's a doozy.
Can you please show me where I have said that a human foetus is not "human"?
You have made this accusation about me in this thread before.
Please show me where I have said that a foetus is not human in a discussion regarding abortion within the human species.
Thank you.
Your only back up has been that two moderators have agreed with you. One seems a bit shaky since he won't post his real feelings out of fear of the wrath of his wife. But I get picked at for being supportive of my husband because I genuinely agree with him.
My back up has been science and fact that an embryo or foetus is not a "very young child". I am also backed by science and fact that when referring to an unborn of the human species, it is commonly and scientifically referred to as an embryo or foetus,
contrary to your aversion to this term or my using it. I am also backed by facts when I say, clearly, that proposing that women should not listen to their doctors who may recommend a late term abortion because it may be medically necessary is downright dangerous for you to say on this site, because you are not a doctor or a specialist in gynaecology or obstetrics or paediatrics. This is a science site, hence the name "sciforums". Not the "carebearforums" or "letsuseemotivelanguage forums"..
I would suggest the same to you but I don't believe in suppressing the opposition.
Of course you don't..
Hello!! I have been that woman 2 times, 3 if you give credit and assume every time the doctor tried to convince me it was true was for valid reasons.
And?
You are not every woman, seagypsy.
Not every woman will be as lucky as you have been with the gamble that you chose to take for yourself.
So when you make such claims and apply it as you have, you do not know the circumstances or medical issues that may have arisen in any woman's pregnancy which could lead her doctor to advise her as such.
This is a public forum and anyone and everyone can read this thread and
your comments and claim that:
seagypsy said:
And if a woman's life only becomes endangered in the 3rd trimester, what good will abortion do that inducing early live birth can't do? In most cases, if the woman's life becomes endangered in the 3rd trimester, killing the baby is unnecessary and will be as traumatic as giving birth. So why needlessly kill something that is alive. It's like stopping to kill a kitten because you are running late to work. It serves NO purpose.
I have to ask, are you comfortable with the knowledge that a woman facing such a decision could be reading this thread right now and take you at your word and disregard the advice of her doctors? Does that give you comfort?
Because what you have said is downright dangerous.
Sure but you are claiming that a fetus is not human until it is fully outside the vagina. Tell me, does the cord also have to be cut before it is human? What medical background do you have to support your claims?
Show me exactly where I have said that a human foetus is not human at any point or stage of its development up to and including birth.
What I did say was that in Australia, hospitals do not grant
personhood or rights to the unborn when the mother's life is at risk and that where the mother's life is at risk, that foetus and its health and safety become secondary.
Here is the discussion I had with Neverfly about it earlier in this thread:
Bells said:
Neverfly said:
What you have said in this thread is suggestive that until that baby comes out of the mother- it simply doesn't count. Now, unless you say that you also oppose late term abortions, I'm strongly under the impression that you actually believe that the act of birth makes it a human and unless it's born- it isn't one.
Pretty much.
It has no rights. In Australia, if a woman's life becomes threatened by her pregnancy regardless of where she is during that pregnancy, that "child" no longer counts. To put it into some perspective for you, I was in labour and I was told, to my face that my "child" did not count. Even though I had made that choice to save it above my own life.
So can you please show me where I have claimed that a "fetus is not human until it is fully outside the vagina"?
Not that your opinion matters, considering my view of you right now, but i really don't give a rats ass what some illogical irrational imbeciles think of my post. I am sure plenty think the same of yours. Who haven't you ever accused of being an idiot at some point, oh maybe Tiassa, but then Tiassa is in authority over you. I wonder if Tiassa took a different position in this thread or changed position would copy cat along side of him? You are right Tiassa has a track record of thinking for himself. You on the other hand have a track record of sucking up to Tiassa. If I am wrong, link me over to any thread and post number where you vehemently disagreed with Tiassa and badgered him in the same manner you are badgering us.
Badgering you?
I was discussing this issue with Neverfly and Bowser when you entered it swearing at me like a vulgar fishwife.
And you kept at me until you got the attention you seemed to crave and I still responded to you politely and from what I can see, the more polite I am the angrier you are.
You have put on quite a spectacle.
Now, while you may not care what someone may think of your post, and I find this astounding because I was pointing out the dangers of your comments and you seem to believe that members and non-members alike or everyone else are "illogical irrational imbeciles".. You are free to your opinion.
Tiassa and I have had some knock down dirty fights in the past and I suspect we will in the future as well. Since I cannot link things in the mod forum, you are free to ask him.
And sucking up to Tiassa?
My.. You're on a roll.
What can't you understand about it. I am asking you to provide support for your counter claim. You seem to be asserting that aborting in the last trimester can save a mother's life. My doctor couldn't even come up with examples, I am asking if you know of any.
You can't even and did not even provide any support for the claim you made. Only some vague reference to what your doctor may or may not have told you.
And I did provide you with links.
I bolded something. The word LIKELY. She would likely be dead. Not the same as would definitely be dead. And they were aborting a pregnancy that was already dying. I knew a girl who had this happen. Her baby had actually been dead for 2 weeks before they removed it from her uterus. She found out because she started getting sick and had a fever. They checked the well being of her baby and could find no heartbeat. Though it was technically considered an abortion, they weren't even removing LIVING cells. They were removing a dead body from hers in order to save her life. I doubt the doctors in your article have any way of proving that if they had waited til the fetus was already fully dead that the mother would have certainly and unavoidably died. If the fact that cocaine MAY lead to miscarriage is not good enough for you then the fact that this dead fetus being inside her MAY have lead to her death is also unacceptable. Remember, you are the one who seems to want to deal with absolutes. Making an absolute claim that it is absolutely not human until absolutely born.
How terrible for that girl you knew. Did you call her a murderer as well?
Or did she get an out because her child was unfortunately already dead inside of her?
As for the cocaine argument. The article I linked was clear.
There was no evidence that the cocaine she had consumed had led to the stillbirth. What part of that don't you understand, exactly?
Now, likely to be dead.. She listened to her doctors.
You have openly declared that women in the third trimester who listen to their doctors and have an abortion because it is deemed medically necessary to protect her life should not be doing so.
That was your absolute claim. Because you feel that she can just give birth instead of aborting it. Because of what apparently happened to you a few times.
Again, may I remind you. You do not speak for all women and you and your medical issues do not apply to all women.
And I just hope that any pregnant woman who may be facing that horrendous decision and is unfortunate enough to be reading your comment does not take you at your word and instead seeks medical advice.
Now,
something you should keep in mind when you make such dangerous and extraordinary and completely unsubstantiated and unsupported claims such as the one you made about how women should just give birth instead of aborting in the 3rd trimester if faced with a decision based on the health of the mother and medical necessity because you don't think doctors are right:
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The rules of this site and plain and simple. Perhaps you should follow them instead of making dangerous unsubstantiated and unsupported claims about pregnant women who may have been advised that it is medically necessary to abort the pregnancy and you claiming that they should not because you think it is murder and you do not think doctors are right and because you believe they should just give birth instead.
None of these women are doctors, how can they make such claims?
Perhaps because they are following medical advice from their doctors and practitioners.
trouble with reading comprehension again? I clearly stated that I put the guilt on the doctor, not the anguished mother. Oh wait, this is your little lying technique again. ... carry on in your usual way.
You advised that women should not listen to their doctors advice in the third trimester if their doctor recommends they abort because it is medically necessary for them to do so.
Not luck. The doctors gave no valid reasons for suggesting that an abortion would save my life. Especially considering that abortion can lead to the death of a woman as well. And they had to admit it. And they had to admit that they had no way of determining that I would survive the abortion or the delivery. They seems sure that I was going to die no matter what. So if the odds are against me but I can allow my child to live in spite of my own death it only makes sense. Save the one that seems to have the best chance of survival. And so we did, and as it turned out the doctors simply had ulterior motives for encouraging the abortions. One even admitted to it.
And again, that is you.
Your gamble and your luck and your situation is not the same as every other women facing that decision or that horrendous predicament.
So declaring that they should just have the baby and not listen to the doctor is dangerous, because not every woman in this situation is going to be the same as you.
Doing all the things you just denied.
I am sorry if I cannot fulfill your pathological need to get as angry as you are.:shrug:
Not biting back huh? have you seen the length of your post?
Biting back would be to respond to you in kind. However, I am not vulgar. I will make a quick joke, yes. So I do not carry on like some sort of literary fishwife who swears the paint off the walls and has some sort of a meltdown to the point where her husband is saying
he has had to try to calm her down...
I like to take my time and respond properly and sometimes my posts are long and wordy.
So the debate is finished then? Yay! Though I doubt you will remain silent to me.
Please prove me wrong.
Stop responding to me.
Please.
I mean really..
When you make false accusations about people, those individuals are allowed to to respond to you and request that you back up your accusations and your claims.
As much as you may claim you do not like to suppress the opinions of others, your demand that I stop responding to your false and misleading accusations and slander proves you wrong. There was also the fact that I had to clearly point out to you that you could be held legally liable at some point in the future for your dangerous and wild claims you made about how women should be like you and ignore doctor's recommendations for aborting in the third trimester due to medical necessity or some risk to the mother's health and wellbeing.
So? That's your opinion, not a fact. No human being can go through life with opinions that please everyone. The fact that YOU see my views this way is quite comforting to me.
It is an opinion and it is stated as such.
Don't know the meaning of the word "ILK". Look it up, your ignorance is not my problem. If you are given to the delusion that you are completely unique in your philosophies or perceptions of the world, that is also not my problem.
If I wanted to know the definition of "ilk", I would have said "what does ilk mean?".
What I said was "who is my ilk?".. In other words, to put it simpler, who are you saying is my ilk?
bla bla bla you sound like a broken record. "I can't offer a good rebuttal so will claim posts stand as testimony." Sure go ahead because our posts as well as yours DO INDEED stand as testimony. Anything else. Btw, I notice after saying i wasn't worth debating with, you still continued to debate my remarks on and on and on in the same post after you made such a claim. All bluff I guess.
I am not the one making the dangerous claims that you have.
:shrug:
OMG now I am misogynistic? Holy shit! you are a trip. Omg.. ok at this point, I will give you the thread because you deserve nothing but ridicule at this point.
Yes, you are misogynistic.
Do you think being a woman somehow absolves you of this?
You are absolutely right! I was such a fool. Silly me from now on before posting I will ask you to approve my position before posting. Because apparently any opinion other than the ones you approve of is completely invalid. I am going to erect a temple in your honor Bells, because obviously you are the pinnacle of truth and reason, the only truth that matters in a fucked up world.
Have a nice night.
At the moment, I am just hoping you do not get sued because some poor woman out there actually took you at your word.
But toodlepip.