Pornography has destroyed me

[PHPlatonica]

My observances those were, only.

That was Really Sweet in so many ways.... It's easy to Forget, as a Female that some standards are nothing more then a Competition best left for Teenage Girls to Deal with. I Have never expected to be oogled over my Cello because Frankly, I can't play it well. But Women get a "mind Set" about Mean too in a lot of ways. Undermining a mans ability to have actual Feelings. Undermining the Male species on being able to be sincere and Mean what He Said. Unless He Does it in a Harsh loud way, most mens pleas Fall on Deaf Ears. Sure, a man can Be More of a Slob, and less likely to cook and clean and the such, But the OTHER Demands Set on men are Just as, if not worse, then the Beauty Standards Set on women. A Man Can not be a "House Husband" and Taken seriously. But a Women who has children AND works is Praised..... The List goes on. It's Pretty unfair standards for Both Sexes... and in the end, along with any Kinky Endeavors, it boils Down too the two who are being intimate entangled two... Or three, how ever it's best worked out. ........ But on one note, and I will try to hold back my Need for stomach expulsion, There REALLY REALLY Are things better left away from the bed room... Ever been to a necrophyliac Site because you Hit a XXX search for just porn? Maybe It Served me Right... But I really was just thinking regular, "normal" stuff would appear... so... Should ALL Things Porn, Including pedophilia, be readily loaded by unsuspecting people who... well Weren't Expecting that? OR is Sex Best left for the Freaks? ... Where's the line? Really......

 

[artistmosi]

That was Really Sweet in so many ways.... It's easy to Forget, as a Female that some standards are nothing more then a Competition best left for Teenage Girls to Deal with. I Have never expected to be oogled over my Cello because Frankly, I can't play it well. But Women get a "mind Set" about Mean too in a lot of ways. Undermining a mans ability to have actual Feelings. Undermining the Male species on being able to be sincere and Mean what He Said. Unless He Does it in a Harsh loud way, most mens pleas Fall on Deaf Ears. Sure, a man can Be More of a Slob, and less likely to cook and clean and the such, But the OTHER Demands Set on men are Just as, if not worse, then the Beauty Standards Set on women. A Man Can not be a "House Husband" and Taken seriously. But a Women who has children AND works is Praised..... The List goes on. It's Pretty unfair standards for Both Sexes... and in the end, along with any Kinky Endeavors, it boils Down too the two who are being intimate entangled two... Or three, how ever it's best worked out. ........ But on one note, and I will try to hold back my Need for stomach expulsion, There REALLY REALLY Are things better left away from the bed room... Ever been to a necrophyliac Site because you Hit a XXX search for just porn? Maybe It Served me Right... But I really was just thinking regular, "normal" stuff would appear... so... Should ALL Things Porn, Including pedophilia, be readily loaded by unsuspecting people who... well Weren't Expecting that? OR is Sex Best left for the Freaks? ... Where's the line? Really......

I think you raise a good point. People really have to be careful nowadays with the stuff out there. It could turn you into an instant criminal if you get caught. Also, it will certainly destroy your innocence. If you do see something that you know you shouldn't have seen, my advice would be to quarantine yourself from internet porn immediately. Really, it can destroy you life; your soul. When we see things on the internet, they don't seem real to us. But it is very real. Anytime you watch internet porn, you should imagine that you are in the scene. Anything that you watch will foreshadow what your soul will become.

 

[duendy]

i see it that unless its children being exploited that adults can do porn. why not? i think it shocks many peple because they have hangups about such uninhibited sesuality

it is to be known tat Christianity particularly has deep fears about sexuality. in their theological writings over the millenia, SEX has been THEmost feared, taboo, and persecuated 'sin'.....Andit is plain to see that the Church's persecution of 'hertics' involved some of the grossest forms of sadism ever to be recorded!

I should imagine, doing porn, if you can mange being watched by cameras, sound crws etd may be fun, in tat you can be prt of set fantasies, and just do what you love. sex

 

[Avatar]

But on one note, and I will try to hold back my Need for stomach expulsion, There REALLY REALLY Are things better left away from the bed room... Ever been to a necrophyliac Site because you Hit a XXX search for just porn? Maybe It Served me Right... But I really was just thinking regular, "normal" stuff would appear... so... Should ALL Things Porn, Including pedophilia, be readily loaded by unsuspecting people who... well Weren't Expecting that? OR is Sex Best left for the Freaks? ... Where's the line? Really......

Really, it can destroy you life; your soul. When we see things on the internet, they don't seem real to us. But it is very real. Anytime you watch internet porn, you should imagine that you are in the scene. Anything that you watch will foreshadow what your soul will become.

I've seen Japanese do chemical experiments on chinese POWs and Russian mafia shoot at homeless people, as well as two monkeys having sex. I doubt that a little human porn can do anything to me.

As for necrophilia, check out the french band Eros Necropsique

http://www.erosnecropsique.net/
Here are some samples:
http://www.erosnecropsique.f2s.com/media/Eros_Necropsique_-_L'Appel_de_Dionysos.mp3
http://www.erosnecropsique.net/media/Eros Necropsique - Ce que charrie le flot de vie.mp3
http://www.erosnecropsique.net/media/Eros Necropsique - La pluie d'or.mp3

 

[artistmosi]

I've seen Japanese do chemical experiments on chinese POWs and Russian mafia shoot at homeless people, as well as two monkeys having sex. I doubt that a little human porn can do anything to me.

As for necrophilia, check out the french band Eros Necropsique

http://www.erosnecropsique.net/
Here are some samples:
http://www.erosnecropsique.f2s.com/media/Eros_Necropsique_-_L'Appel_de_Dionysos.mp3
http://www.erosnecropsique.net/media/Eros Necropsique - Ce que charrie le flot de vie.mp3
http://www.erosnecropsique.net/media/Eros Necropsique - La pluie d'or.mp3

What is necrophilia? You know what, don't tell me...

 

[Avatar]

What is necrophilia? You know what, don't tell me...

That's nothing beautiful, if you ask me.
But the music by that band is nice, maybe you'll like it too.

 

[artistmosi]

i see it that unless its children being exploited that adults can do porn. why not? i think it shocks many peple because they have hangups about such uninhibited sesuality

it is to be known tat Christianity particularly has deep fears about sexuality. in their theological writings over the millenia, SEX has been THEmost feared, taboo, and persecuated 'sin'.....Andit is plain to see that the Church's persecution of 'hertics' involved some of the grossest forms of sadism ever to be recorded!

I should imagine, doing porn, if you can mange being watched by cameras, sound crws etd may be fun, in tat you can be prt of set fantasies, and just do what you love. sex

Wow. So you're advocating watching porn? But still, would you want to be with a man that watches this crap? How would that effect you relationship? And what about what PHP said? Can't you go to far by watching some of the crap on the internet?

 

[Avatar]

But still, would you want to be with a man that watches this crap?

Actually I don't know a man that hasn't watched porn.

 

[duendy]

oh god Avatar, yer not into that is yu....?
one of te most disgusting books i've ever seen was in Waterstones bookshop here in M/C. it...dont know ifit was 'pretend'..fukin hope so. you saw women on dead rotted corpses, ...it was too vile for words. but i was glued in morbid fascinatin. turning te pages. couldn't believe tis book would be availab;e inan ordinary bookshop....YET you see that wud be. NOT though wild 'ordinary' sex...ohhhhh nooooo!!

 

[Avatar]

No, not really. The most I have done is translated lyrics by 'Eros Necropsique' into latvian for one music review. It didn't leave a good taste in my mouth though, so, nah, I'm not into that stuff.
Still like the songs by them though.

 

[duendy]

what do you think is the attraction for necrophillia?....why do some people wan to getclose and personal wit dead bodies?

 

[Avatar]

I haven't researched that, and I think I won't too.
That psychic disorder was briefly mentioned in my judicial psychiatry class, but nobody inquired the doctor further about it. No surprise, eh?
I can only guess that they are complety sick though.

Here's the Wikipedia article about it: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Necrophilia
Doesn't say anything much too

 

[artistmosi]

oh god Avatar, yer not into that is yu....?
one of te most disgusting books i've ever seen was in Waterstones bookshop here in M/C. it...dont know ifit was 'pretend'..fukin hope so. you saw women on dead rotted corpses, ...it was too vile for words. but i was glued in morbid fascinatin. turning te pages. couldn't believe tis book would be availab;e inan ordinary bookshop....YET you see that wud be. NOT though wild 'ordinary' sex...ohhhhh nooooo!!

Duendy my friend. Please stay away from the necrophilia! Please! And get rid of that boyfriend who would rather watch porn. Gesh.

 

[PHPlatonica]

Necro and Snuff Films man, That's not Porn. It's twisted. Tho in some cases I suppose the Necrophiliac Deals with the Sexual anatomy of the "Victim" ... But The only thing I saw that Made it sexual was what he with him self to a Suture he made.... Dude, NOT cool.. Not funny.. not Porn.. it took the whole "Giggle" about Porn right out of me... so.. it Really Can get to you. Animals? Children? The internet is World Wide.... there's no "world" police.. the Best thing to do I think is to not partake in those Sites... I Don't know if anything in this world will make the twisted "go away".... But On the Side of Porn, It was a Exactly what I Got For Sending out a trip X Porn worm to find a "pornacopia" of stuff.. and I got more then I bargained for. The Laugh was Literally on me... But I had NO Clue at all that would be out there. so. eww... if you still want some "norm" to the whole Sexual world, stick with Hustler and Playboy'girl..... At least with that you Get what you Figured you would get.. Blah... and I Promised not to verbally regurgitate again......
But MAN duendy, don't you ever wonder about what if that crap was happening to your corpse? or worse.... Im of High hope that the real sick things out there are intended to trip up actually pedophiles and the like, and not because there's some one actually enjoying it.

 

[Facial]

Pedophilia, necrophilia, and bestiality - these are various aspects of porn that are both private and taboo in society. I personally don't like any of these.

 

[duendy]

hello hello??
let me make it quite clear. i did NOT have a boyfriend addicted to porn. i met a woman who did. and i am not into necrophilia, but dont shy away from discussing it, or any other taboo.

 

[gsys]

Claim: porn raises one’s expectations.

Answer: Maybe for some. They are looking at the wrong porn. Consuming pornography is much more fulfilling when you allow yourself to experience a diverse array of content, and not just airbrushed silicone-filled body-hair-waxed dyed blondes. The Internet is a wonderful way to expose yourself to porn with various sexual acts, body types, and fetish portrayals, which can open your mind when it comes to your actual sex life.

just read tis today: 'IT'S PORN TILL DAWN: Dear Mirror, My boyfriend of two years prefers watching porn and masturbating by himself than coming to bed and having sex with me.

I have no problem with his masturbating but I hate going to bed alone every night. I've told himit's stupid for us both to masturbate in separate rooms instead of having real sex togther.

On several mornings I've found him still downstairs on the sofa watching porn. I want to talk to him about it but he just gets angry."
that letter's to an agony aunt at here www.mirror.co.uk

how would YOU answer that

funnily enuf, i once met this woman who confided in me tat she had becme SO incensed wit a almost identical problem as reported above, that she took an AXE to her partner's computer...!

If a woman were complaining about this to me, I would console her and invite her back to my place.


Necrophilia – I wonder if there I legal precedent for putting in your will that you want to leave your body to the necrophiliacs.

 

[duendy]

Claim: porn raises one’s expectations.

Answer: Maybe for some. They are looking at the wrong porn. Consuming pornography is much more fulfilling when you allow yourself to experience a diverse array of content, and not just airbrushed silicone-filled body-hair-waxed dyed blondes. The Internet is a wonderful way to expose yourself to porn with various sexual acts, body types, and fetish portrayals, which can open your mind when it comes to your actual sex life.


If a woman were complaining about this to me, I would console her and invite her back to my place.


Necrophilia – I wonder if there I legal precedent for putting in your will that you want to leave your body to the necrophiliacs.

hahahaha...good dark humour there mate....

 

[Theoryofrelativity]

How has Internet porn changed your life, if at all? And if you are under about 25, I don't think you can answer this question, since you don't know a world w/o internet porn. I do. It was awful.

There has always been people of both genders more drawn to looks than other atrributes, nothing new there? But it is temporary as after the inital attraction it has to go deeper otherwise there is no longevity to the relationship.

I don't think porn has changed that, I think all images in the media have led us generally to have higher expectations when considering what is physical beauty though. Natural breasts rarely resemble those lovely pert artificial ones, so if guys only exposure till their first sexual encounter is media women (who have mostly had boob jobs) then they are in for some disappointment.
Although if the lady gives good head her looks don't matter a jot!

But regards porn and sex blah blah, the porn industry did not invent sex or any of things they show you, peeps been doing it in private for all of time, and will continue to do so with or without porn. Porn maybe helps widen our horizons and provides a few tips? That's not a bad thing for the unimaginative.

I agree with James re the quote in the first post, probably the guy hasn't managed to actually attract a female to himself or he has been shunned for what he feels is 'not being attractive' enough? Who knows, who cares?

 

[Theoryofrelativity]

Necro and Snuff Films man, That's not Porn. It's twisted. .

Personally I'm happy being blissfully ignorant of the sick twisted things people enjoy that fall outside the norms of male/female or gay relationships and have no desire to go trawling the net to find out about them and have never done so. That kind of stuff does mess with your mind, in that it just makes you realise who walks among you, and its scary shit!