Pornography has destroyed me

ok, PORN

whats it mean?

whose got the habit? just read tis today: 'IT'S PORN TILL DAWN: Dear Mirror, My boyfriend of two years prefers watching porn and masturbating by himself than coming to bed and having sex with me.

I have no problem with his masturbating but I hate going to bed alone every night. I've told himit's stupid for us both to masturbate in separate rooms instead of having real sex togther.

On several mornings I've found him still downstairs on the sofa watching porn. I want to talk to him about it but he just gets angry."
that letter's to an agony aunt at here www.mirror.co.uk

how would YOU answer that

funnily enuf, i once met this woman who confided in me tat she had becme SO incensed wit a almost identical problem as reported above, that she took an AXE to her partner's computer...!
 
Idiot said:
I am ruined. I am dead on the inside. I am ashamed and embarrassed of what now stimulates me and I know that I am irrevocably changed for the worse.

I would be ashamed, too, if all I cared about were fake women. Well, umm, I guess it's hard for women NOT to look fake, though, isn't it? Women are kind of expected to look that way. And after all, porn just takes that feminine stereotype and amplifies it.

Shameful? Embarassing? Affirmative. :)
 
. . . throw every last dollar you have at your physical appearance.

I'm serious. Personal trainer. Porcelain veneers. High-end boob job. Get scared and get it done.
This is fake. Fake fake fake fake fake fake farce fake fake fake fake fake.

Do not extend my gender any credit.
What gender is that?
Do not hope that a guy will be in awe of your cello playing, your VP title, or your cute apartment.
Cellos are wonderful people!

I promise you he won't care. Don't kid yourself into thinking he will. Men are programmed to respond to the visual.
Programmed? Can't I get away from this tranceformation stuff for ONE FRIGGIN SECOND?!?!?
They are rather dog-like, aren't they? Man's best friend? "Great" ( :p ) minds think alike, supposedly.
 
You're a walking, talking non-compete clause and you're going to end up alone with a slobbering oversized Rotweiller named Chuckles.
Chuckles? Isn't that Dr. Giggles dog?

Pull your head out of your ass and be advised - porn viewing/obsession is spreading like the plague amongst my gender - upping the already unrealistic physical expectations, pushing boundaries in the bedroom (you're down with anal, right?), and providing instant, customize-able sexual highs with the push of a button.
As for pushing anal boundaries, I hear some gay men really go for that. Maybe you should ring them up. After all, a hole is a hole, right? Or is a man's anus actually dirtier than a woman's?
Just like the vagina is cleaner than the penis, huh?
Knowing that, it's a puzzler that Penisil (Vagisil's masculine-hygiene counterpart) hasn't really been a marketing success. I can't seem to find it anywhere for this HORRIBLE recurrent yeast infection.
 
Giambattista said:
Duendy, what's an "agony aunt"?

Someone who needs to see Dr. Kevorkian, pronto?
women who answer peoples problems in newspapers, and magazine
 
duendy said:
ok, PORN

whats it mean?

whose got the habit? just read tis today: 'IT'S PORN TILL DAWN: Dear Mirror, My boyfriend of two years prefers watching porn and masturbating by himself than coming to bed and having sex with me.

I have no problem with his masturbating but I hate going to bed alone every night. I've told himit's stupid for us both to masturbate in separate rooms instead of having real sex togther.

On several mornings I've found him still downstairs on the sofa watching porn. I want to talk to him about it but he just gets angry."
that letter's to an agony aunt at here www.mirror.co.uk

how would YOU answer that

funnily enuf, i once met this woman who confided in me tat she had becme SO incensed wit a almost identical problem as reported above, that she took an AXE to her partner's computer...!

Wow duendy. Are you for real? Your boyfriend is a real loser. Why don't you get rid of him?
 
I got addicted to porn in college, and it's carried over into my life now. I realize that I've got to give it up. Porn is bad for some people. I definitely think it's bad if it's used as a substitute for the real thing...real human interaction. This is sadly true in my case. I started to think about the girls that are doing this and the complete disrespect for women that I must be harboring by watching this trash. I'm telling you right now, if you watch to much of this stuff it will deaden your soul. It will destroy you. I am still young, and I know I can bounce back from this, but I've taken a huge hit. My friend in college a couple years ago jokenly warned me about watching this garbage. He had been through the same thing. But I guess everyone has got to learn for themselves. So, if you are reading this and you are a porn addict, I'm sure you won't give a crap about what I just said.
 
Aw Man Duendy... :( What a Punk... You know what you should do, If you can stomach it... Go to a Porn Shop under the "fetish" isle, Find something about (Hurl) Golden showers and other ends and what not, and (Vomit) Foot Fetishes...... Then (RALPH) to the section for Bestiality.... Replace his Porn's with that Crap... and I bet he wont wanna touch him self for a long long time :) LOL

hahhaaaa.... Men and there Cute little "Pee Pee's" ... HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAA
 
PHPlatonica said:
Aw Man Duendy... :( What a Punk... You know what you should do, If you can stomach it... Go to a Porn Shop under the "fetish" isle, Find something about (Hurl) Golden showers and other ends and what not, and (Vomit) Foot Fetishes...... Then (RALPH) to the section for Bestiality.... Replace his Porn's with that Crap... and I bet he wont wanna touch him self for a long long time :) LOL

hahhaaaa.... Men and there Cute little "Pee Pee's" ... HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAA

You seem to be very knowledgable about porn
 
no, it was a woman i met who told me....

i am not anti-porn. tat's why i mentioned Annie Sprinkle. she like a post-porn feminist......her attitudes are really liberating

she is trying to chillout males to te WILD side of woman......?

in mythology, yeah, patriarchs have demonized the wild female. you know the woman who is wholly into the erotic

i keep hearing here and leswhere that watchin women makes them see them as adirty--ie., when inporn. YET u dont hear anyone say that much bout males in porn.....?

growing up in the '60s, even tho it was decade of 'permissive society' it still was very uptight abot sex. my parents generation --sex was tabu. some people got married and din't know what to do...!

aty least now people is getting more relaxed...BUY i feel for many, spesh SOME males. theyt still have a hangup about women who Luuurve sex, in al its wild ways
 
Who ever behind the dvd series "Girls Gone Wild" and now the "Guys Gone Wild" are really annoying. They are showing the comercials on Military channel around 12am. WTF does that has anything to do with military!

Other than that, I am ok with internet porns. Cuz porns do open minds from time to time, but they are just for entertainments. They are nice to watch sometimes, but I have no plan to imitate.
 
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Actually, I think it is often quite the reverse. People who watch too much porn come to have unrealistic and quite skewed expectations about sex.

Porn is usually not liberating. Rather, it imposes its own set of strictures and expectations on people.

I think you're right, James. People are very impressionable, nevermind children. And while I have nothing to back this up with, I suspect that boys (and girls) are looking at porn at younger and younger ages. We've seen the effects and we've all heard about how TV and movie violence affects our children. After doing a research project for it at school, it's been hard for me to conclude that violent TV and movies doesn't hurt our youth.

Now we are witnessing a generation where more and more kids are getting to be computer apt at exceedingly young ages. And there's hardly anything in the way in order for the children to gain access to purely unadultered information. Parents monitoring their kids' Internet activity? Yeah right! Not with this generations' inordinately permissive and submissive parents.

Click here to read about what Ted Bundy had to say about pornography.
 
daktaklakpak said:
Who ever behind the dvd series "Girls Gone Wild" and now the "Guys Gone Wild" are really annoying. They are showing the comercials on Military channel around 12am. WTF does that has anything to do with military!

Other than that, I am ok with internet porns. Cuz porns do open minds from time to time, but they are just for entertainments. They are nice to watch sometimes, but I have no plan to imitate.

Obviously they are tryin to sav Iraqi women children and men from the military occupationist
 
makeshift said:
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Click here to read about what Ted Bundy had to say about pornography.

Do U know Jaybee, the one who got banned here.

He seems to be on the same path.

But there is a slight problemo,

Why dont all become like Jaybee ?

Why I hate Oral disguisting sights ?
 
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