Somewhere? how about your partner :shrug:
Pornography and Monogamous Relationships...
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Somewhere? how about your partner :shrug:
So. tempted. /controls self/
Oh be my guest! But I think I have a better idea of what is going on in my house or my bedroom then you :bugeye:
gullible? what do you think he is doing? He is right beside me in bed
Hypothetically...so he doesn't masturbate or he doesn't masturbate to porn? Is it only porn that is offensive or any pic of another woman (like Maxim mag)
I am sure he doesn't want me telling you about his masturbating habbits LOL He isn't 18 though, he doesn't need to get off every hour on the hour.
Let's just say...there is no porn involved! We have our comprimises and that is one of them. I feel luckythat he respects my feelings enough. (it took a while lol) but if he was like OHHHHHHHHHHH fuk you I will do what I want, I don't care how you feel! I wouldn't be with him.
Let's just say...there is no porn involved! We have our comprimises and that is one of them. I feel lucky
that he respects my feelings enough. (it took a while lol) but if he was like OHHHHHHHHHHH fuk you I will do what I want, I don't care how you feel! I wouldn't be with him.
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You seem so certain....It must be what you do! Do you think ALL men do that? Are these the same men that also sign up and chat in chat rooms with other women, pretending to be single, while the wife is sleeping :bugeye:
Sure if I said......Oh yeah sure I have no problem with it, he probably would do it. But because that isn't the case, he respects my feelings
If he needed it that bad and couldn't accept how I feel, I guess he would be with someone else.BTW: I have seen a lot of your posts and you sure mention Hot Chicks a lot! and you seem to think unless there is porn in a relationship it isn't going to work out...:bugeye:. I think there are other more important things in a relationship to keep on track for it to work. Do you treat your wife like a hot chick? Do you make her feel sexy? Or do you just drool over other women?
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gullible? what do you think he is doing? He is right beside me in bed
Funny as fuck :xctd:
Why do people worry about it so much - as long as he/she is not going out to get the real thing, then what does it matter?! you should not let jealousy get in the way of your relationship, its pointless, just makes arguments.
I like watching porn, sometimes - its good for learning new positions etc.
Wasnt laughing at you - just thought the image of a guy running around at night trying to porn was amusing - tickled me!
I accept porn because I rather it be open in our relationship (if it has to be) rather than James hide it like his dirty secret - this I would not like - I find that I am more into it than he is also.
Also, not all men like porn, alot of guys I know prefer the real thing!
Except for the losers, running to the computer in the middle of the night, while the wife is asleep lol
Except for the losers, running to the computer in the middle of the night, while the wife is asleep lol
Those deerty deerty bastards
Yes. I haven't seen it.
Seems they have deleted it :bugeye:
There are no women in those chat rooms, just men pretending to be 15 year old girls. It's either that or taking the clothes off your World of Warcraft character and using a variety of /dance and /kneel emotes to make elf porn.
Orleander said:
Maxim is far more offensive than pornography.
I don't think all men are into porn. Mine isn't. I can honestly say he never looks at it. He's just not interested in it. When he was young, teens early 20's he went to strip bars and I assume he also looked at porn but he by his own admission out grew it. It wouldn't bother me if he did look at the odd picture now and then, I'm not at all the jealous type but it would bother me if it became an obsession which excluded me.
Thoreau
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Well look, in mine and shorty's defense, let me ask ya'll something.
If you love your partner, and you find them sexually attractive, why is there still a need for porn? That is something I don't understand!
EDIT: And I know what some of you are going to say.
"Its there and why not?"
Well, there are other people you find attractive in this world. Thier there, why not? See my point? Just because something is there and its appealing, doesn't always necessarily mean you should do it.
If you love your partner, and you find them sexually attractive, why is there still a need for porn? That is something I don't understand!
EDIT: And I know what some of you are going to say.
"Its there and why not?"
Well, there are other people you find attractive in this world. Thier there, why not? See my point? Just because something is there and its appealing, doesn't always necessarily mean you should do it.
Thoreau
Valued Senior Member
<~ Im a guy and don't look at porn.