Pornography and Monogamous Relationships...
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Bells
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I honestly do not really see what the big deal would be.
Another perspective would be to ask whether it would be moral or ethical for either in the monogamous relationship to masturbate. Which in effect, is what "pleasuring" one self while watching porn is.
I was talking from a guys perspective.
My husband has his 'to do' file on the computer. Its pics of what he would like 'to do' what if he's thinking about someone else while masturbating?
There is nothing wrong with watching porn on occasion to get in the mood or even just get off by yourself. As with everything in life not allowing something to take over your life or get out of hand is the key, if you RELY on it, your not in a good place. My wife enjoys it probably more than me. She has also gotten kinkier of late but hey we've been married 14 years so it's all good.
If you say so.You would be 100 % WRONG! I am a light sleeper and I listen to him snoring. He knows how I feel about Porn, and he repects my feelings
If there were a way to verify it though, I'd be willing to bet you're wrong.It may be that he avoids the "porn" you appear to hate, and just uses an underwear ad or victoria's secret catalog.
I watch it with my girlfriend, and there are certain times a month that I cannot partake in certain acts. Shes okay with it, so there is no problem.
Bells
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That's the key. Those who view it as cheating should also consider that masturbating would also be cheating because you would be "getting off" on something other than your significant other.
If you say so.
It may be that he avoids the "porn" you appear to hate, and just uses an underwear ad or victoria's secret catalog.
Yup
EXACTLY!!! My husband and I have been going at it for 13 yrs. He likes more, I like variety. We get ideas, I get variety, he gets more.
If you say so.
victoria's secret catalog.
Sure I guess if they have those at his work!
I would love to bet with you.......because I could use some extra money, Christmas is around the corner lolThat's the key. Those who view it as cheating should also consider that masturbating would also be cheating because you would be "getting off" on something other than your significant other.
I remember in my youth I had an irish catholic girlfriend and she said to me one day.
"If I ever caught you jerking off I don't think I could feel the same about you".
It didn't last long after that little freaky admission.
Yup, You can't run the same gameplan forever it gets too predictable
I went ballistic on him the other day when I found out he took the blanket out of the truck. I don't want to have to plan it and "did you remember to bring the blanket?"
That's the second most asinine thing I've heard all day.
Orleander said:
But we don't admit that.
Two things, technically:
My boss: "You're not allowed to use your cellphone for non-work related purposes."
Me: "This is work-related"
My boss: "Well, put it away then. You can chat on your breaks."
Bitch do you comprehend the words that come out of my mouth?
Me: "I put in a request for the 31st off a week and a half ago and you haven't emailed me back. Is the 31st ok?"
My boss: "You'll need to talk to (N) about that. She's in charge of scheduling."
My boss is in charge of scheduling for my department.
