Pornography and Monogamous Relationships...

[Thoreau]

Here is a question for the masses.

Do you think it is moral/ethical to... pleasure yourself via porn if you are in a monogamous relationship.

For example, lets say you've been married for a long period of time and found out that your significant other was pleasuring themselves while watching porn.

Now I know, there are already going to be alot of questions like "Well, are they hiding it from thier significant other?" and "Do they watch it together or alone?" etc etc etc.

I'm not putting any specifics in the question however if you want, you can put them in your answers if you'd like.

 

[shorty_37]

Do I need to post my Say no to Porn picture again???????? :bugeye:

 

[Orleander]

I think its both moral and ethical. Now if your partner has a problem with it, I think you both should work on it. Find out why the other person doesn't like it and maybe there can be a compromise. Maybe the other person would let you take explicit photos/video of them to use. Maybe sit and watch a soft core porn with them. Maybe eventually you czan move up to something harder.
If they say no to that, you might have to decide which is more important. The porn or their feelings (as unreasonable as you think they are).

Now if the other person doesn't have a problem with porn but thinks you looking at it by yourself is cheating, well, WTF??? That's just crazy talk!

 

[Orleander]

Do I need to post my Say no to Porn picture again???????? :bugeye:

No, but that probably won't stop you from doing it anyways

 

[shichimenshyo]

I see no problem with it, neither does my girlfriend

 

[madanthonywayne]

Do you think it is moral/ethical to... pleasure yourself via porn if you are in a monogamous relationship?

I think a long term monogamous relationship would be damn near impossible without it.

 

[shorty_37]

I think a long term monogamous relationship would be damn near impossible without it.

Why? :shrug:

 

[mikenostic]

Do I need to post my Say no to Porn picture again???????? :bugeye:

NO! We got it the first time you posted it.

I don't think men would watch porn as much if we got the nasty sex we wanted when and often as we wanted it.

I could post a pic saying 'Just say no to romance novels and soap operas'.

 

[Orleander]

NO! We got it the first time you posted it.

I don't think men would watch porn as much if we got the nasty sex we wanted when and often as we wanted it.

I could post a pic saying 'Just say no to romance novels and soap operas'.

pfft! yeah, whatever.
porn is easier than trying to get the other person in the mood.

 

[shorty_37]

I don't think men would watch porn as much if we got the nasty sex we wanted when and often as we wanted it.

I could post a pic saying 'Just say no to romance novels and soap operas'.

Yeah Yeah...I have heard it all before :zzz:

Please do post a pic! just about the Soaps, I hate romance novels

 

[madanthonywayne]

Why? :shrug:

A man needs some variety. Porno allows you to get that without the risk of bringing home a disease or becoming emotionally entangled with "the other woman".

Not to mention the fact that most men want sex more often than most women. Are you married? Do you ever tell your husband, "I've got a headache." or "I'm too tired"?

What do you think he does in such a situation?

 

[shorty_37]

A man needs some variety. Porno allows you to get that without the risk of bringing home a disease or becoming emotionally entangled with "the other woman".

Not to mention the fact that most men want sex more often than most women. Are you married? Do you ever tell your husband, "I've got a headache." or "I'm too tired"?

What do you think he does in such a situation?

Long term relationship. Sure I tell him when I have a headache or I am too tired. Ummmmmmmmm he says ohhhhhhhh come on! I say no really....
He says ok fine then!

 

[Orleander]

... Do you ever tell your husband, "I've got a headache." or "I'm too tired"?

What do you think he does in such a situation?

Oh hell yeah. I think we were sexless for about 4 mths right before/after our daughter.

 

[Orleander]

....He says ok fine then!

LOL, you sure are gullible. :xctd:

 

[shichimenshyo]

NO! We got it the first time you posted it.

I don't think men would watch porn as much if we got the nasty sex we wanted when and often as we wanted it.

I could post a pic saying 'Just say no to romance novels and soap operas'.

Yes indeed

 

[shorty_37]

LOL, you sure are gullible. :xctd:

gullible? what do you think he is doing? He is right beside me in bed You think if once in a while I don't want to have sex...........he runs to find some porn?

 

[madanthonywayne]

gullible? what do you think he is doing? He is right beside me in bed You think if once in a while I don't want to have sex...........he runs to find some porn?

He waits for you to fall asleep, then hits the internet porn. I guarantee it.

 

[mikenostic]

pfft! yeah, whatever.
porn is easier than trying to get the other person in the mood.

If you are having a problem getting your husband (i.e. a MAN) in the mood, then you aren't doing something right.
Either that, or he's tired of your whisker biscuit and wants some strange. LOL.

 

[Thoreau]

My personal opinion on the matter is that if you are happy with the person you are with, there should be no need for porn. TO ME, getting off to porn while in a relationship is like cheating, Your getting off on some elses image. Thats just my opinion.

 

[shorty_37]

He waits for you to fall asleep, then hits the internet porn. I guarantee it.

You would be 100 % WRONG! I am a light sleeper and I listen to him snoring. He knows how I feel about Porn, and he repects my feelings