So in your dream all of this happens organically and the State eventually is no longer needed or wanted. No blueprint needed!
It's predicated on people raising their children peacefully and logically.
I think this
http://www.sparknotes.com/lit/lookingbackward/section2.rhtml offers at least a blueprint of how society could arrive at a peaceful and logical society. However, Edward's dream is in direct contradiction to your Stateless society and it also deals with individualism and class, which you really never address.
There is a summary and analysis of chapters 1-28, so please read Michael and tell me why this possibility scares the hell out of you.
Firstly, I have no idea what you mean 'scares the hell out of me'? I'm more than happy for people to do whatever they want so long as it's based on voluntarism.
Well, let's just start with the first sentence:
Leete explains that there is no longer any need for money to facilitate exchanges because the nation is the only producer and distributor of goods and services.
A couple points:
The "Nation" exists in this world. This means that in this 'Utopia' the humans living there must still resort to the initiation of violence in order to maintain society. To say a "State" and a "Utopia" exist at the same time is oxymoron.
There was an argument in the 1800s over whether it was more economically efficient to allow the "State" to produce goods or individuals organized 'organically' to do so. Academics by their very nature thought, it'd be better if 'they' take charge (as they're so smart and all). The rational went: From their high up vantage point, they can see how many people need coffee cups, thus they can ensure the factory produces just enough coffee cups to satisfy demand. If it were left up to individuals to produce coffee cups, then you'd have people producing either too many or too few. The State, kind of like Goldilocks, would produce the 'just right' amount.
Seems reasonable right?
Half of the world's population gave this a try and many died (and many are still dying) because they don't understand the role of money and profit in a free-market. Mostly because most humans have never lived in a free-market and when they do, they become immensely wealthy transition to Fascist Progressive State and then collapse (see: Egypt, Persia, Roma, China, USA.... soon). It happens over and over again and again.
Anyway, Socialism/Communism/ State run Coffee Cup factories murdered, literally, 100s of MILLLIONS of humans.
So, how to get the coffee cups without a State? Say, you produce coffee cups. You make a profit, this signals there is demand for your product. You produce more. Other's see you making a profit. They produce coffee cups (right about now you'd buy a politician and use the State to stop that pesty competition thing - but, let's pretend we live in a free market). As more coffee cups come into the market, your profit is reduced. You lower your costs through increases in efficiency, increase quality, lower price - eventually, you lower production and test the market with new products (say utensils). You now also produce these at a higher profit and the cycle repeats or you create a loss (Zune) and quit making that - either way, through sound money and profit you immediately know, to, or not to, produce these. Make too many things people do not want - you go bust. Make things people like, you grow.
Without sound money and profit, the State doesn't know how many coffee cups to make. Thus, the State has to gather information another way, such as spying on people to see if they have a cup. In the end, it's easier for the State to just force each and every person to have, say 1 cup. In order for the State to replace the free market with any semblance of efficiency, it reduces civil liberties, eliminates privacy and resorts to force - which is what the State IS. This was shown to happen in E. Germany, Russia, China, N. Korea, Cuba, over and over again and again. The same process happens. Without sound money and no profit (no private property) the State is inefficient and resorts to what it IS -
the initiation of force. It MUST reduce civil liberties and priavcy in order to do what sound money and profit does voluntarily in a free-market.
Thus: free markets require: Law, private property, sound money. We OTOH live in a regulation nightmare, a Progressive State that violates our person, our property and we are forced to use fiat currency (which is not the same as sound money).
RE: Private versus Public
Lastly, the State (Public) has a monopoly on the legal
INITIATION of force. Not on 'force' per say. You're (Private) still allowed to defend yourself. That's the difference.
RE: How to stop parents from spanking in a true free market.
Firstly, such a world would be vastly more prosperous than our Fascist State.
Secondly, there's an economic incentive to get information out to parents about how spanking lowers a child's IQ and increases aggression (two undesirable traits in a voluntaristic stateless society). These are a economic drain on society as a whole - given the problems that develop later.
Third, insurance companies, many of whom will have to foot the bill, may offer cheaper rates to parents who attend parenting classes. If parents are found to violate their agreement not to spank, they may find many of their services they pay for - cost much much more. There's a real incentive not to hit kids.
Fourth, the added cost of security on society from dealing with aggressive kids adds another economic negative.
All up, parents may be incentivized not to hit their kids by being offered good economic discounts for not doing so.
While I could go on, I'm getting carpel tunnel. I'll end pay saying: much like the Abolitionist's argument about satellites, machines and dinosaur juice replacing the whip and slaves - no one can know what the free-market (voluntarism) would come up with in the future to deal with spanking. However, as humans transition from force (slavery) to voluntarism (paid work) we increase in prosperity and become more peaceful as a society.
NOTE: I thought I'd also mention, from a workers point of view, they often 'feel' that They are the ones creating profit - this is untrue. Working doesn't create profit. Trading creates profit. I thought I'd mention that as a lot of these "Utopian" ideals were brought about by workers misunderstanding this simple concept. You can work all day long raking leaves in the woods - it's not work that creates profit. It's trade. Which is why I want a liberal free market. I want to free people to freely trade. This
INCLUDES people who only want to trade their labor. Sadly, we only produce workers thus there's an oversupply and that means (like coffee cups) the price goes down. Taxes and Regulations have pretty much finished off any semblance of the free market. Thus, we're now poor and we'll be getting poorer soon too.