I disagree.
I have theist relatives who put their church before their family, to the point where her youngest son (12 at the time), had to ring my mother at 9:30pm and ask her how to cook something in the oven because his parents had not come back from church yet and there was nothing in the house for him to eat. She also failed to do any grocery shopping because it interfered with her going to church and praying on others (laying on hands, etc). My father had to drive to their house and take him some food and then stayed with him until his parents returned 2 hours later. I believe many words were said upon their return.
As an atheist, I can assure you, my family will always come first and foremost. I must be severely abnormal then, because apparently I can only care for my family and the people in my life if I am a theist. Please!