Well sam, you need to see the difference between healthy respect and foolish naievte. You have a very strong bias against "the west". Is your constant presentation of the failings of the west to be regarded as healthy respect?
And when does healthy respect, after long thought and debate, turn into decisive action for or against a non-neutral phenomenon? Like radical islamic terrorism against "the west"?
Well I do exaggerate some on the forum but I think most people in the West (and there are quite a few of the opposite persuasion) have ideas about the East based on view points from heavily biased sources. I've lived in the ME for 5 years, travelled and spoken to the people there, had friends in the workers, drivers, admin, women who were Saudis who were teachers, nurses, doctors, etc.
I don't recognise any of the caricatures I see here. Not because they are false, but because they are seen through a Western compass. A person from Peshawar or Riyadh is not the same as a person from Darfur or New York, even if they are all Muslims. If I came here from India, should I despise the West for their higher rates of divorce, the teenagers I see puking and groping each other on weekends, the apparent racism I encounter, or should I recognise that it is a cultural difference that reflects the natural offside of a liberal society with a multicultural mix of people?
When I see/hear comments about other cultures, there is always an undertone of arrogance regarding the state of people, culture, education, status of women, etc that I encounter. There is a fascination for the exotic, of course (like the Hindu guy who wears a dot of vermilion on his forehead, until he realises that the looks he gets from other people are of disbelief or disdain and he is considered as underdeveloped due to his beliefs) but there is also overwhelming prejudice associated with people who desire to maintain their own identity as well as integrate. There's a Mohammed here who has become Mo so as to be less associated with is religion and more with his abilities.
I was just indicating here what it feels like. Everyone has a feeling for their culture and identity and no culture has a perfect history. To demean anyone ( women in hijab? Fucking morons?) simply because their choices are incomprehensible to you, to make them ashamed of their choices, which they may not be ready to change, is no excuse.
I don't give a shit about the causes of it any more. I want it stopped by any means necessary.
Probably what the people of Palestine feel every minute of every day. Feel like a suicide bomber yet? Nope? Then you haven't been pushed hard enough or far enough. Give it a few years, a few bombings close to home, a few dead relatives and you'll get there. Feel religious about it yet? Thinking of 72 succulent virgins waiting in the afterlife? Or the pieces of your family you put together in a sack last night? What is more probable? See how ridiculous all the BS sounds to those who are affected? What effect the derision and dark humor may have? Its unbelievable to me that people can be so completely blind to reality. Oh yeah, they want a fast ticket to heaven.
Are you so certain of your idea of what they MUST believe that you don't even want to really take a look at their situation and try to see beneath the media hype ?
Are western policies to blame? 100%? I suspect not. You'll argue however that without the west, all of islam and the middle east would be an eden of peace and cooperation. This is utter foolishness given the history of any religion that fragments. I don't hate shiites or sunnis. They hate each other (in many places) and have since long before the west was ever involved.
Ultimately, if the result of all of this in, say, a few hundred years, is the complete eradication of islam as a concept, I wouldn't shed a tear. And if the opposite happens? Will all of you muslims shed a tear at the loss of the west? No. You will not. You will dance in celebration of the final victory of allah over the infidels.
Explain to me why this is not true.
I answered this elsewhere for (Q):
Hence if a Muslim decides he is a progressive Hanafi, that is his choice, which is what most Asian Muslims brought up in a multicultural society lean towards. Those who have suffered under dictators or colonials in more restricted societies choose either to fight against submissive compliance or seek refuge in a plea for segregation by reverting to orthodox customs that convey to them a sense of identity denied them by those who insist on ridiculing their values or as a protest against perceived oppression. Still others do both, retreating into orthodox Islam and using passive aggressive tactics to fuel their sense of injustice. When you have a society with a mix of both kinds of reactionism ie. reaction against submissive compliance and reaction towards social segregation, this creates schisms in the society ordained more by culture (especially in those people with homogeneous cultures less exposed to diversity) than religion.
The solution of course is to initiate dialogue and aim for constructive criticism aiming for a sense of engagement and interaction rather than a defensive withdrawal with the setting up of barriers.
As a simple example, what do you think the ban on the burqa will result in?
Right now 30 out of 300,000 women in Holland wear a burqa. Do you predict the numbers will go up or down?