I am sorry for you experience. That is too bad. Many women do not have so much trouble as you.
Ask any woman who has breastfed and her experiences right at the start when she was still learning how to do it and trying to teach the baby how to attach.. the horror stories are endless. Mine are nothing compared to what some other women have experienced.
In terms of your question about my statement about the "body being one giant genital" I was being facetious, but serious at the same time. Scientific discovery has proven all affectionate toucing is chemically zexual.
All affectionate touching? So a pat on the back from a parent, friend, family member, etc, is sexual?
But, I don't think this should be used as a way to increase the radicals on the left and right. The right may say breast feeding after a certain age is molestation. The left may say a body massage is molestation because the ual chemicals are released. Who knows how far they will try to take it? It just takes one case to destroy one families life.
There are limits. I think if a parent is becoming aroused when bathing an infant.. in that the act of bathing said infant is the direct cause of the arousal and attraction to said infant, then that parent obviously has some issues and the child can be in danger if the parent acts out on those feelings. But I do not believe that all affectionate touching is intrinsically sexual. If that were the case, or if someone attempted to make that case, then parents would be barred from picking up their newborn baby and ever touching said child.
I think it's high time they write things with science in mind to ward off moral zealotry imposed upon the masses.
If you are claiming that science views all affectionate touching as being sexual, then writing things solely with science in mind could cause more issues.. if we are to follow your line of reasoning in this thread.
It allows way too much interpretation. Laws are not meant to be interpreted.
Nonsense. What do you think court's do? What do you think judges do in each case they hear? They interpret the law and apply it to each situation or case that comes before them.
The are meant to be followed. They are supposed to be fair, just and accurate.
They are meant to be followed but within reason. If laws are not to be interpreted, if they are to be taken at face value, then life as we know it would cease. Laws are constantly being interpreted by the courts and if a case comes before a judge which has no precedent to lead the judge in his/her decision making process, then that judge has to interpret the law to apply it to the case at hand and hand down a decision. Saying that laws are accurate is misleading. Their interpretations are meant to be accurate so long as they apply to each individual case. For example, there can be a law that says sexual touching of a child is illegal and anyone caught doing so will be jailed. But if you are claiming that all affectionate touching is sexual, then if we were to apply said law, no one would ever be able to touch their child.. not to feed them, dress them, bathe them, etc. So a judge would look at that law and interpret it to each case at hand.. so a parent touching a child when feeding it or bathing it would not be viewed as having broken the law because they are doing what they should be doing to be a good parent.. that is taking care of a child as it needs to be taken care of. That same judge could then jail another parent for sexual molestation because said parent actually did touch the child in a sexual manner (ie penetration, fondling of their genitals, etc).. Can you see how the law can be interpreted to apply to each case?
What threat to the child is being posed? This is the way to begin to consider a societal law in a scientific way.
You would need to prove that
all affectionate touching to a child is inherently sexual and thus harmful to said child. In that case, you would need to prove that a parent bathing, feeding, dressing, carrying, holding, hugging a child is touching that child in a sexual manner and therefore, it is harmful to that child. The rebuttal would be that it is virtually impossible to not touch a child to maintain the child's health (eg feeding, bathing, carrying, etc). So where would you draw the line? How can a parent care for a child if they don't touch it at all and offer it no affection? On the contrary, not offering or giving any affection to a child is almost tantamount to abuse and parents who fail to care for their children are often jailed for neglect.