Bells
Staff member
Do you think a person needs to be told that hitting or killing another person is wrong? I'll give you an example. A week ago, my 2 year old got into an argument with his 10 month old brother over a toy. Before I could step in to stop the argument, he smacked his brother across the head with the toy. His little brother promptly burst into tears and without any prompting, he immediately hugged his brother and said "so sowwy". We did not even have the chance to say it is wrong to hit. He knew when his brother started to cry that he had hurt him and as I bent down to pick up the baby, he said, "Wuke hurt 'ames" (he has issues pronouncing L and J at the moment). He has never hit his brother since then. We had never had the opportunity to say he should never hit or hurt anyone, because he has never showed any violent tendencies in the past. It was an impulsive lashing out on his part and he immediately knew it was wrong. Ergo, he thought for himself and realised he had done something wrong.Thinking for oneself is a strange concept. It assumes that there is no input from an external source, that parents and teachers are irrelevant, that social norms and morality have no impact on how a person thinks and that role models are not required. It presumes essentially that every person is capable of being raised in a vacuum and arriving at the same conclusion as the other. Since none of us have been raised in any such environement where parents or society or role models, or even, according to science, the language we speak has no effect, how do you assume that anyone is thinking for themselves?
Of course our environment and those who exist in it are important. But we also have the propensity and the ability to think for ourselves in determining what is wrong and what is right. Do you honestly think that religion is the one vessel to instill moral values upon society because we are simply unable to determine that causing harm to others is wrong?
I guess at the end of the day, do you think morality is solely based on our understanding and belief in God? I personally do not think so. I was raised in a Catholic household and became an atheist at a very young age. If I were to base my moral values on what I have been taught during my Catholic childhood, I would view homosexuality as being wrong and a 'sin', I would not be for freedom of choice and I would assume that to believe differently would mean I would be going to hell. Now, do you honestly think we are being moral if we only act in accordance to religious dogma and supposed morality because we don't want to go to hell? Or are we merely being hypocritical and adhering to such religious restrictions to ensure our own wellbeing?
You view the concept of imagining there is no heaven and therefore, no God, in extreme terms. So because someone is an atheist, they have no self control and would therefore think it is not wrong to kill someone or steal? I could counter that and say that the only thing keeping a religious or God believing and fearing individual from killing or stealing is the belief that they will go to hell if they do. Now, as an atheist, I do not think it is acceptable to kill or steal. Does my lacking in religious morality mean that I am somehow different to other atheist? Are all atheists murdering and thieving scum? I doubt it. Compare an atheist who deems it unacceptable to murder or steal because it is wrong to do so as it would cause harm to another individual, to a God fearing individual who does not kill or steal solely because they do not want to go to hell. Which do you view as lacking in moral fibre? The individual who will not kill or steal because they know it would cause harm to another or the individual who simply does not do it because they do not want to spend an eternity in hell?According to me, without religion, there is no right or wrong, because morality is a religious construct. Otherwise, there is no reason to think that murder or rape or theft is "wrong". Absolutely none.
Religion is not what tells you it is wrong to kill, rape or steal. If it is then there is something seriously wrong with you, because that would mean the only restriction in your capacity for harm upon others is your fear of hell.
Imagine there is no heaven means to not restrict one's morality and our capability for good in religious doctrine. It basically means that we, as a species, are capable of good without being selfish in thinking we do good we go to heaven. Don't you see how restrictive and selfish that is? If we were to base our morality on religion, then homosexuals would have no rights, abortion and birth control would be banned, denying women the right over their own body. Imagining there is no heaven means we relieve ourselves of the sometimes immoral religious doctrine and think for ourselves as to what is good and what is bad.