Its not what it's cracked up to be. And not only women are taken advantage of there are clever females taking advantage of innocent men too. Best thing to do is know what your getting into and it is not so easy to walk away from. For me i didnt mind having women take care of me, thing is things get crazy and women are very vindictiuve. They think because they support you that they own you. Its sick.
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If pornography is demeaning to women...
- Thread starter lepustimidus
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Yeah, It's demeaning, but then again, it's their choice. I mean, Its not like you're gonna recognize your friends in a film right ? Not unless you knew already..
if you think porn is demeaning then notice a friend in a film, what the hell are you doing watching it?
What was your screen name Johnny? Schlong tall Johnny?
Its not what it's cracked up to be. And not only women are taken advantage of there are clever females taking advantage of innocent men too. Best thing to do is know what your getting into and it is not so easy to walk away from. For me i didnt mind having women take care of me, thing is things get crazy and women are very vindictiuve. They think because they support you that they own you. Its sick.
yeah there are very clever females out there who work in the industry and there are also some real stupid women who work in the industry!
in what way did women look after you?
John99 got a part as a porn again christian. So I hear.
My god, he wasn't kidding......John,I never !.....
What was your screen name Johnny? Schlong tall Johnny?
LMAO!!
Creeptology
Registered Member
I agree with emmz on this one. I am a man, I have watched a lot of porn along with most men and think women do get a raw deal. Quite a few interviewed long standing female actresses admit it's true and they would know. Sure they made their money from it, doesn't mean they didn't think it had it's more ugly side. The humiliation of women in the industry seems to be increasing too. The amount of spitting or pissing in actresses faces, BJ forcin' even when gagging or throwing up etc etc are prime examples that and are not uncommon. I don't mean the niche stuff like the sad excuse for a human being Max Hardcore stuff either, I mean mainstream.
A lot of actresses wont speak out whilst working (either up and coming or for big label) for fear of losing work. They have a short shelf-life though, women are just meat in the industry and everyone wants fresh meat. Most actresses admit to this and say they did do it by choice but felt cheated in some ways, not just lower pay but treated like dirt. They just got on with it as wanted the money. Some may say they enjoyed the work but a lot don't seem to give that impression.
A lot of actresses wont speak out whilst working (either up and coming or for big label) for fear of losing work. They have a short shelf-life though, women are just meat in the industry and everyone wants fresh meat. Most actresses admit to this and say they did do it by choice but felt cheated in some ways, not just lower pay but treated like dirt. They just got on with it as wanted the money. Some may say they enjoyed the work but a lot don't seem to give that impression.
Challenger78
Valued Senior Member
if you think porn is demeaning then notice a friend in a film, what the hell are you doing watching it?
I meant it's demeaning to the individual, not to men as a general whole, we men don't really care about what being in porn makes you look like..
Women do.
My god, he wasn't kidding......John,I never !.....
Long John the Baptist.
I meant it's demeaning to the individual, not to men as a general whole, we men don't really care about what being in porn makes you look like..
Women do.
yes they do!
also it all depends on the sort of sexual encounters theya re having, if for example, a man is shagging a woman from behind and putting her head down the toilet then yes that is demeaning.
(sorry about the crudeness but i didnt know how else to explain myself)
I meant it's demeaning to the individual, not to men as a general whole, we men don't really care about what being in porn makes you look like..
Women do.
I'd have to disagree with that one too. Of course they do.
So, if demeaning women on camera is a current fad, why are more and more women watching porn? (Sorce;some study from some guy, somewhere)
yeah there are very clever females out there who work in the industry and there are also some real stupid women who work in the industry!
in what way did women look after you?
Well i would never get involved with an industry because i am no hooker. I just go caught up in a certain lifestyle that years later hurt me because i didnt have to work or go to school and basically i could not understand that these women just wanted me for one thing, but nothing is free. the price you pay. So basically i am starting from scratch now and i am 30 years old, still people hold grudges and they think they jknow everything about you. Luckily it was years ago but my scars are still healing.
Accessibility. The way the media can distribute it. Not so long ago the only way to get porn was to go to a sex shop. Now I don't know if you've ever been into a sex shop but I'm no shrinking violet and even those places can make me feel vulnerable.
Creeptology
Registered Member
So, if demeaning women on camera is a current fad, why are more and more women watching porn? (Sorce;some study from some guy, somewhere)
Yeah sounds trustworthy coming from a guy, guess he knows better than all the actresses who say they needed counselling after working in the industry or have esteem issues and the like.
Even if it's true pure logic dictates just because more women watch it doesn't mean it's any less degrading. If more Jews in WW2 concentration camps became Kapos would that mean that the Nazi Totenkopf guards were treating the prisoners more humanely?
Accessibility. The way the media can distribute it. Not so long ago the only way to get porn was to go to a sex shop. Now I don't know if you've ever been into a sex shop but I'm no shrinking violet and even those places can make me feel vulnerable.
i dont understand any people get so worked up, its just sex! nothing more nothing less!
Creep:
I've never seen stuff like that.
But I take it you've never seen femdom?
http://www.femdomexclusive.com/
The amount of spitting or pissing in actresses faces, BJ forcin' even when gagging or throwing up etc etc are prime examples that and are not uncommon.
I've never seen stuff like that.
But I take it you've never seen femdom?
http://www.femdomexclusive.com/
i dont understand any people get so worked up, its just sex! nothing more nothing less!
The thing is that people change. The way you look at things now are not the way you will look at them later. Better safe than sorry.
Well i would never get involved with an industry because i am no hooker. I just go caught up in a certain lifestyle that years later hurt me because i didnt have to work or go to school and basically i could not understand that these women just wanted me for one thing, but nothing is free. the price you pay. So basically i am starting from scratch now and i am 30 years old, still people hold grudges and they think they jknow everything about you. Luckily it was years ago but my scars are still healing.
Sincerely, I hope you're ok. Please don't think I'm disregarding men's experiences. I'm not, not at all.