To quote you:
Ideas cannot compete; for there to be competition, there has to be a will. And between humans and ideas, only humans have a will, ideas do not.
Further, your notion that only ideas should compete, but not humans: that means that from this competition of ideas, there would be no real-world consequences for the people presenting those ideas. So, for example, someone could promote racist ideals, and no consequences would follow for them. That's a recipe for a progressively degenerating society.
Yeah, literally, ideas cannot compete because they are first, nonphysical, and second, not conscious and self-aware (yes, don't have a will). The people with ideas
will that just the ideas compete. That involves willing (wishing) the people with other ideas not be hurt. (It is an abstract notion, indeed, but that doesn't make it unreal.)
So the nurturers in society who do the instructing and behavior exampling have a noble task of teaching compassionate ethics all along, so that the racist mind doesn't develop. And this way of treating people is how to best prevent tragic events of extreme competition like 9/11.
Yeah, in La-la Land, in which people are completely divorced from what they say and do.
No, closer to Shangri-La. Look at the Dalai Lama. He has lived the life as well as anyone can, and it has been pretty good.
I'm not sure it is inherently bad to compete - even when it is people competing against eacher. After all, the United States of America have been built on people competing against eachother.
The history of the US having been built upon the results of competition can be viewed as a negative thing. It was one more unconscious motivating component in the brain of a dictator that lead him to overseeing heavy competition and killing a lot of people in the process (generalized example). Or more recently, someone dropping poison gas on a village in Syria.
It seems the distinguishing factor is what one is competing for.
Two people competing against eachother which one is going to be a better person - that's not necessarily bad.
It is okay to compete against one's own past performance. That is usually safe because we have genetic self-protection built-in. The protections for society are more recently evolved and less developed. Two people competing (against each other) often escalates to gunfire.
Winning in everything at all costs seems stupid; but it is important to win in some things.
Yes it is important to win at a lot of things like recovering from the flu or avoiding hunger. The winning should be in a figurative sense against things (or as mentioned earlier, ideas), such things are not conscious and don't suffer and don't have a will to fight. There is the expression, "winning at life," and that is good. It is a good attitude, and that is what all I'm really saying boils down to--having a good attitude.