(Q) said:Your attitude is very hurtful.
Sometimes, the 'truth' hurts.
spidergoat said:Water, I think there is a big difference between a teacher that brings one closer to God, and one who thinks he is a representative of Him, and the sole agent through which one may achieve salvation.
Over the top insults and aggression is what I do, it's my gimmick.Cris said:Hapsburg - how about toning down the unnecessary aggression. You tend to go over the top a little too often.
Cris said:Adstar - it has been usual here to greet someone new with a welcome message, not abuse. Besides Hapsburg is salvageable.
darkhawk said:Thanks for the help, Hapsburg.
And a sincere thanks to those of you who have helped so far.
Water, if you're serious, Catholic Reconciliation is a sacrament where you confess your sins to a priest and through God's power through the priest your sins are forgiven (as long as you are truly sorry for said sins). Following the forgiveness, the priest will then give you something to do for pennance, whether that is saying certain prayers or something else, such as community service or a simple apology to someone, depends on what the priest feels is appropriate.
c20H25N3o said:Since the bible tells us to be bold before the throne of God why would we need an intermediary? Surely it would be better to go into your 'closet' where God may see what you do in secret and ask Him for forgiveness directly?
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water said:Darkhawk,
I think it is good to have someone to talk to about your sins. But I'm not sure a human is good to talk to about one's sins. However, if people are left to God, all on their own, then they are likely to develop all sorts of delusions, or leave, frustrated upon not having heard or learned anything, or having only heard their worst fears.
Here, I have to say this right away:
My greatest trouble with Christianity is that it seems to be designed for people who have no real problems in their lives, and is a religion that is meant to be born into. To an outsider, it is so clinical, so sterile, so perfectionist.
Because if one is an outsider to Christianity, and has some personal issues to deal with, and first turns to Christianity as a youth or an adult, then things are likely to go wrong.
One of my greatest frustrations with Christianity is that it is assumed that everyone loves oneself. And that if you don't accept God, then it must be that you are willfully rebelling. Having had that assumed about me, and me trying to believe it, I almost went insane.
Many people say "God will guide you, you just listen to Him and pay attention" -- but this is very harmful nonsense. Maybe for an older believer, who is sure of his faith, such an encouragement will work, but it certainly can be devastating for newbies.
Newbies need some guidance from people, newbies are not used to rely on their faith, they don't know how to do it.
They need structure, and a confession ordinance may provide that structure.
Adstar said:Good point. But we are forgiven through faith in Jesus. Those who believe in Jesus know they are forgiven. But the bible says that it is good to confess our sins to one another (we do not need a priest but just any other Christian will do) The reason we confess our sins is to obtain the prayers of other Christians on our behalf.
James 5:
16 Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.
All Praise The Ancient Of Days
For those that do not have the opportunity to be supported by like minded brothers and sisters, I feel it would be better to confess your sins directly to God
Adstar said:Why we confess our sins to other Christians for is to obtain their prayers for help in reducing our sin.
c20H25N3o said:What is your advice to people who are seperated from like minded Christians and yet are feeling powerless to the effects of sin? Would you advise them to take their confesson to a catholic priest that he might pray for them or would you advise them to seek out the only one who could help directly? This is after all the topic of this thread
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Adstar said:Well if one is alone then of course they cannot confess their sins to other Christians. I certainly would not advise any Christians to go and confess their sins to a catholic priest, if i did that i may as well tell them to confess their sins to a buddhist monk.
One can and should pray to God for Help in overcoming ones faults and reducing ones bad effects on others. But confession to God is pointless. He already knows our sins. Maybe we have got different ideas as to the meaning of the word Confession?
Confession: To tell someone (who does not know your sin) what you have sinned.
What is your thoughts on the word Confession?
All Praise The Ancient Of Days
No. You are just taking your anger out on people.
You are teaching nothing but hate and anger.
Rubbish.
Would you like me to send you a dime so you can buy yourself a spine?
No we do not love ourselves but we understand ourselves only too well.
We forgive ourselves because God has forgiven us.
Yes millions have thought the same way. It's Just to hard.
"tell me what to do priest man", "tell me what to do imam," "tell me what to do guru". Placing their eternal destinations in the hands of men.
Adstar said:Well if one is alone then of course they cannot confess their sins to other Christians. I certainly would not advise any Christians to go and confess their sins to a catholic priest, if i did that i may as well tell them to confess their sins to a buddhist monk.
One can and should pray to God for Help in overcoming ones faults and reducing ones bad effects on others.
But confession to God is pointless. He already knows our sins. Maybe we have got different ideas as to the meaning of the word Confession?
Confession: To tell someone (who does not know your sin) what you have sinned.