Being religious has nothing to do with institutions, groups or shared personal experiences. You are religious because you believe in a god(s), it's as simple as that.
So, your religion is completely different from your parents religion? Are they Muslims or Jews?
i don't know what my parent's beliefs are really, and i don't care...that's their business, not mine. if it gives you some perspective, several years ago i had a spiritual experience that sent me into a tailspin so much so that my parents took me to get an mri on my head and to a psychologist. now then, i wish i'd stop reading this thread without logging into the forum. taking mental note...
*insert explitive*
and see, that's why i don't like to say i'm religious, because most people's next question would be, "so what religion are you?" because they want to slap their label on me, stick me in some category, and make a bunch of assumptions about me that probably aren't true. i'm the religion where you have experiences of a spiritual nature that lead you to believe certain things. is that an institution? well, i know i'm not the only one this is happening to, so in that regard, yes, i am part of a group of people who also have spiritual experiences which they learn things from. do we learn the same things? i don't know, probably not and i don't really care. we all learn what we need to know. i do NOT want to be affiliated with any organized religious institution, doctrine, or dogma because i am an individual who's having a personal relationship with the lord, and i'm not stupid enough to think that he only communicates with people who belong to some certain organization or are familiar with some certain doctrine. god's going to accomplish his will through us whether we think we know what he's doing or not or whether we think we know what we're doing or not. i've heard him speak to me through someone who doesn't even believe in him at all! the reason that i use christian terminology alot is because it's what i'm most familiar with, not because i think that the bible is the only divine inspired writing in existence. shit i've had a spirit write things through me before so...what does that say? but from what i've experienced, the bible is divinely inspired, and jesus is the savior of humanity. does that mean that there's no truth to be found in other sacred texts? no! the bible is the only text that claims a savior. and he is it for me.
and see, that's also why i said what i did to greenberg about whether or not someone wants to know god. this isn't about following some doctrine. you can't intellectualize or theorize god. you experience him, and it knocks you on your ass. it turns your world upside down and inside out. to further the appropriate analogy we've heard here...i come out to this forum, and i witness the intellectual circle jerk that's going on, and i'm make the assumption that if some of you guys were faced with the opportunity to actually get laid, you'd be scared to death. are you willing to have your life turned upside down and inside out? are you willing to take the scrutiny, and condesention, and isolation, and downright abuse that people who claim to have a relationship with god do, by somebody a lot like you? are you willing to be labeled delusional, or stupid, or uneducated, or insane just because you're aware something that some judgmental asshole isn't aware of and attest to it? are you willing to give up your life, and i mean GIVE UP YOUR LIFE, for the perpetuation of god's will and the greater good? it doesn't have anything to do with intellect. it has to do with humility. that's why i said that someone's intellect can actually be an impedence to knowing god.