Oh, ok. My ex sister-in-law had the same kind of talks with her kids. I only talk about my baggage with my friends, not my kids. My husband doesn't either. But I suppose if we had made worse choices of friends, we might have had that conversation with them.
I wouldn't call it baggage lol I call it sharing SOME of my experiences
growing up. I mean we talk about everything in my house.
Get this I was so ticked last week. I picked up my son who is in grade 1.
I ask him how his day went and tells my ok but some kid kept calling him the "B"
word over and over. I was like what? what "B" word....He didn't want to say lol
Anyhow another kid that walks with us (grade 5) Spelled B I T C H to me because he was there
when it happened. I was like what??? Apparently my son was playing soccer and he is very
fast and pretty good at sports. This kid got mad because he kept scoring, SO he called him
a Bitch over and over. My son said you shouldn't be saying that and to stop saying it. This kid
got right in his face and kept at it. Finally my son went over to the teacher and she came over
and said ohhhhhhh thats not nice and next time you are going to be in trouble. ( HOW ABOUT THIS TIME)
Anyway, So my son kept saying what if he does this tommorrow what should I do? because
I felt like hauling off and punching him in the mouth lol ( I felt like saying, Yeah you should ) Of course
I didn't.
I have never heard either one of my kids swear. I KNOW they know what the words are.
I tell them that too, I know you have heard and know the words but I better not hear you
repeating them. So far so good lol
But it is very hard to teach your kids the right thing to do, when there are other little brats getting in their faces. You teach them manners and right from wrong then they are surrounded by kids who just run wild.
My older one tells me, my friends don't have chores. I say good for them, You do and if you
don't like it maybe you would like to live with them. I can be strict, but also pretty fun and lenient
it all balances out.
I still get the I love you and hugs at bedtime. Sometimes just out of the blue so I think
I am doing a decent job lol
(Sorry if I got a bit off topic there)