Buddha1 said:Why is there such a silence!
Buddha1 said:Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then. ~Katharine Hepburn
Since you broached the topic......Giambattista said:You've finally scared ALL of us off!
Okay not me. I'm still here. I've just been quiet for a day.
"Lesbian", my dear friend is another term meant to psychologically marginalise same-sex behaviour and you should know better not to use it!Giambattista said:Too bad for women, though, they seem to have a tougher time being lesbians! I've known several young women who have dabbled unsuccessfully, and one who flat out told me she was a lesbian, and then promptly dated two guys. I guess it was just an experiment on her part, but seems to me women aren't nearly as good at being constant.
I know I have said this on some thread recently, but I'll say this again:Giambattista said:I've always said this very same thing in protest: the sexes should just stop mingling and stick with each other!
Although, we know women are the weaker ones, because they can't seem to find their own as attractive!
Buddha1 said:Since you broached the topic......
This is the last weapon that those who have a vested interest in 'heterosexuality' have. They will destroy evidence, manipulate it, hide it and when you try to expose the truth they will browbeat you, try to bully you --- throw their 'easy' social power at you --- and when nothing else works they will just ignore you --- like you don't exist. If they do that, they don't have to face the truth. It is as simple as that!
I have witnessed that on other boards, and I think this is a common pattern. The worst part is that they coolly go about with their earlier business of "heterosexuality" and "homosexuality" and everyting else (including that heterosexual is straight/ masculine and masculine men who like men are homosexuals/ queers too, and that heterosexuality is natural and biological, and that homosexuality has no purpose......and so on!) just like before, as if nothing has changed --- as if they don't have a conscience at all. The vested interests can easily afford to do that since after all they are in power. No amount of truth can hurt them as long as the real straight men are disempowered and cannot come forward to speak --- eventhough they are the vaaaaaast majority.
It's frustrating when that happens --- but that also brings hope that true straight men will read this too and it may force them to think, though maybe the vested interests have not yet come to that stage here!
But it exposes them well as bigots, their power as artificial, their masculinity as fake --- Heterosexuality is an ideology like other human ideologies, and as such it is only interested in surviving whether by hook or crook, it is not interested in the truth --- because truth will totally throw it out of existence.
Buddha1 said:I know I have said this on some thread recently, but I'll say this again:
It's a well known fact that males of a species are almost always better looking/ more attractive than the females of the species. (Why do you think women have to put up all that make-up to look good!).
Buddha1 said:"Lesbian", my dear friend is another term meant to psychologically marginalise same-sex behaviour and you should know better not to use it!
How we label things affects our perception.
Just laughing will not suffice, I'm afraid. What we need is evidence.Ophiolite said:Bhudda, I can speak with total authority for only one person: myself. The only intense pressure I feel under as a male to be heterosexual is the intense pleasure derived from sexual activity with a female. Based on this - and, I concede, only on this - I find your entire thesis laughable. Quite the funniest thing I have read for some time.
If you could just learn to see yourself as 'different' from straight men, and not extrapolate your experiences on others --- you'll know what I mean.Ophiolite said:Bhudda, I can speak with total authority for only one person: myself. The only intense pressure I feel under as a male to be heterosexual is the intense pleasure derived from sexual activity with a female. Based on this - and, I concede, only on this - I find your entire thesis laughable. Quite the funniest thing I have read for some time.