SAM: "May I ask about your initiation into weaponry?"
I missed that post earlier, and didn't mean to ignore it, Sam.
" What was different about it?"
It was different in many ways from what I observe as the typical USAmerican initiation. Guns became ubiquitous in Lebanon during the on-and-off civil war. You would encounter all sorts of people toting M-16s, Kalashnikovs, G3s, etc. because these were at least as common as other gadgets like Nikons or WalkMans. Being a curious lad, I took interest. People were very casual with weapons, and not in a necessarily dangerous way. The machismo that I find associated with weaponry in the USA was almost entirely absent. In the right context (like a lull in fighting) learning about a weapon was very straightforward for an American teen like me. In retrospect, I think the novelty was mutual in several encounters:
Sometimes I just walked up to guys (or gals) on the street and said something like
-"Marhaba, mish-hayda M-16?"
_"Na'am"
-"How's that thing wor..." (click-kachik, clip out, breech open) hands it over to me
_"Jeeb- this lever is the fire selector, kid" etc...
-"Saheah? Cooool!" (I aim it down a busy street, funny glances from people who then go right on with mundane city life)
Stuff like that was a little different than Mayberry USA. There was even some gun chic, when it seemed like weapons were almost like a fashion accessory- teenage girls with automatic weapons slung over their shoulders along with book-bags: I thought that was
way cool. I never saw or heard of an accidental shooting- I'm sure that must have happened, but people I met always seemed to just have a lot of common sense about gun safety. Being the curious type, when I visited folks, I'd often ask about their guns, and usually would get to handle and (in the right circumstances) shoot them.
In times and places of actual fighting, things were of course very different, and my family and I spent the most dangerous days and nights hiding in basements. But in the more prevalent "normal" Lebanese routine throughout the war years, there were some common scenes of complete craziness with guns in Beirut. In heavy traffic, sometimes somebody would "shoot" their way through an intersection (just firing in the air). It does quicken the pulse for a moment if you're not used to it. Sometimes honking horns escalated into tat-tat-tat of guns- once I saw the interchange progress from horns and gestures to a pistol to rifle to heavy machine gun (all fired in the air) and of course the wielder of the largest weapon was courteously given right-of-way.
All those rounds going up, whether in traffic, celebration, or in plinking at Israeli jets were scary when you thought about them- Which I never did, until a 7.62 bullet crashed down into the railing of my apartment balcony while my hand was on it (maybe 2 meters away)
There were some scarier times, but the funnier times are the best memories.
Basically, when it came to weapons I was a little jaded by my teen years in Lebanon. Later on in the US Navy, basic weapons training was underwhelming for me, and not at all what I expected. And around my redneck friends here in the USA, it's much the same. Gadgets that became everyday things for me when I was younger in Lebanon are a Big Deal here in the USA in so many ways, as if it's some kind of advanced technology that isn't all over the "3rd World". It's strange disparity of common proficiency with a technology that USAmericans are most prone to trumpeting about in terms of the politics and bravado of gun ownership.
And that's part of the reason things get so deadly for typical young USAmerican soldiers patrolling Mideastern streets, confronting civilians with weapons in a place like Iraq: You really can't tell who is who, and what their intentions may be by the weapons they carry or keep, and you can't expect people in a civil war situation to go around (or sit at home) unprotected. There is an immense culture-gap between USAmericans and the residents of less stable parts of the world when it comes to gun culture, and I've seen it from both sides of some very different and clashing attitudes.