Without considering the typical Jewish and Islamic focus on piety, focusing on their apparent impersonalism and anti-anthropomorphism can be a bit problematic.
Serving a god is different from having a relationship with a god, just as doing your duty at work differs from having a personal relationship with your boss.
It could be argued that not having a personal relationship shows more reverence or respect for said authority.
In roundabout, yes. It's essentially about not assuming more familiarity than is warranted.
If someone were to say "I won't believe Barack Obama is president of the US until he comes to visit me and personally proves to me that he is" - probably nobody would take such a person nor their request seriously.
But when people say "I won't believe God exists until he comes to visit me and personally proves to me that he exists and has the qualities traditionally attributted to him" - this is often considered a perfectly sane request. In fact, considered so sane that it is often deemed taboo to question it.
That may make for an interesting new OP, wynn (if you are so inclined). I like the angle of finding out atheists' "concerns as they pertain to you personally, not on some abstract level". That would seem to require more of a testimonial rather than the tired propaganda talking points we usually get from atheists.
This same thing comes up all the time in these discussions.
Like I said, de facto excluding all issues that pertain to the particular person doing the epistemological inquiry is a sure way to arrive at no actionable epistemological insights. And so these threads go on and on ...
Sometimes, the pain of learning new things is simply bigger than the pain of remaining the same.
EDIT:
To give some examples to illustrate what I mean by "concerns as they pertain to you personally, not on some abstract level" -
- "I work at a company whose boss is a Christian, and is so openly. Some employees there are Christians, some are not. Recently, there has been a restructuring and budget cuts and several people lost their jobs. Strangely though, none of them were Christians. I suspect that religious discrimination is going on, and that I may be next to lose my job. I am very worried about that."
- "My husband recently got involved with a religious group. He wants me and our three young children to join, but I don't want to and I don't think it is right to push our children into that group. I've tried to talk to him about my desires and concerns, but he doesn't want to listen to me. I am worried that I will lose my husband and children, and I feel helpless about it all."
These are examples of real-world concerns that can push people into thinking about religious topics.
When one's concerns are formulated like above, there is usually some way to address them directly (such as beginning to look for a new job, making sure one doesn't erupt with anger and bitterness when it becomes apparent one was fired because of religious discrimination; consulting a lawyer, making preparations for a potential divorce, etc.).
But people often formulate their concerns (even though they are based on actual problems in their lives) in more abstract philosophical terms, which seems to help only rarely, and often just riles them up and doesn't help them to take productive action.