Flores: i am putting this one to bed (so to speak)
who/what/where/when and how did you come up with the completely flawed theory that men and women are innately attracted to their opposite? the only difference between me having something hanging between my legs or something shoved up my torso is this dear: an X or a Y and believe me, it is quite a tight race... no one is sure who is going to win until they cross the finish line... everyone is a girl until the (Y) wanker grows anyways, so if you wanna get technical, we are all potentially bi-sexual at the very least anyways... and the only thing that makes me want to fuck the opposite sex is ta-da:
SEX... the moment you puritans take off your heterosexual masks that you hide behind in order to deny your humanity, you will witness for yourself what the human species is really all about... without the contrived society bullshit of a good person = this and a bad = that... sure if you are in it for love, so be it, you get banged with emotion... if you are in it for sex, ditto but minus the emotion... but remember, every action has a reaction and every reaction has a consequence... it goes a little something like this, humans actully require the following to sustain/preserve their life:
1. Air
2. Food
3. Water
4. Sheltar
5. Sex
where in there does it say anything about preferences or choices, marriages, heterosexual, homosexual, being a corporate slut, a war monger, a made for t.v. star or school bus driver?... nowhere... all of the above are fabricated... they are not even part of the human animal's composition... genetic coding if you will... the above (1-5) are the essentials for human life to be not only "livable" and "maintainable" but "sustainable", everything else is pure unadulterated BULLSHIT... your judgement calls and your renditions of what you "think" life is = fake and contrived... as are you and i because we belong to a society that is a complete farce... we seem to think we are something we are not? why? because we are TOLD by society that we are in fact something we are NOT!
and i guarantee you, if you needed your dick sucked or your pussy licked in order to not lose your rational functioning mind (Midnight Train), believe me you would let a dog do it... get out of the middle ages... sex is one thing... love is another... love is fleeting... sex is constant... one is for obvious reasons, more gratifying (love) in the long run... if you find it... and if you do, gimme a call, i too am looking for love (in ALL the wrong places mind you)... sex, i can pretty much find where ever and when ever i want...
granted... sex is empty and plain old yuck if it doesn't mean anything but love is usually so wrapped up in some form of hate (whether it's self-loathing or anti-humanness) anyways you don't really get to feel its true benefits until you're well on your way outta this life... death bed effects don't interest me... i want to live it now...
on another note: to the dude that spoke about his messed up parents hating eachother thus leading to his messed-upness... i hear ya... it's so true it's painful... just because a man and a woman are together does not mean they are going to be good people or parents nor does it dictate how they will edify and behave towards their offspring... being a parent is the hardest endeavor you will ever have, yet because the pay isn't all that good, you can choose... to either give it your 100% or your usual nothing... that is an individual choice, not a sexual orientation one...
you are lucky, at least you have 1 you can look to for hope, i on the other hand DO NOT have a single hetero marriage i can look to for solace in this big ugly twisted world... yet i do have several gay couple friends who believe and practice loving someone for who they are, and not attempting to alter them in any way, they believe it IS THE MOST honourable and sincere way to love another human being...i believe... it IS THE ONLY way... accept this philosophy and be free to live your life the way you choose therefore allowing others to in turn find their true freedom... reject it, and be emprisioned by your own egoism...
men and women who can't accept their inherent differences and love eachother regardless of said differences are the very people who have designed this tortured society, which, we are forced to assimilate into today... marriage at 20? who said this was good and why? gay/hetero marriage? does it make you more of a whole person or less of an empty one? wake-up, it starts with you, and ends with you... that is life... you come in this world alone and you leave alone, everything in between is borrowed...
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