its not difficult to imagine a scenario where one's sanity or happiness is dependent on a car mechanic.
That is worldly.
One may have a financial, political, marital, health, academic, and many other crises, but none of them is as severe, as all-pervasive as a spiritual crisis.
Nor do these professionals expect or need my complete submission.
neither do saintly people
Of course they do. This is what distinguishes them from worldly professionals.
The responsibility of those who claim to know what is best for us, spiritually, eternally,
have an incomparably greater responsibility than doctors, lawyers, mechanics, etc.
agreed
And yet when we fail, spiritually, those spiritual professionals blame it all on us.
But I am not sure why the gravity of the services performed suddenly renders one incapable of negotiating the field of professionals.
Given that spirituality encompasses and informs all the other aspects of a person's life, and the run-of-the-mill person is considered categorically inept and is expected to consider themselves categorically inept, there is no room for any kind of negotiation.
In fact, attempts at negotiation are viewed as offensive by spiritual professionals.
We have a reasonable right to expect to be protected by authorities that tell us they know what is best for us.
the same duty of care extends to all professionals
Clearly not. People who are professionals in the field of spirituality like to find explanations and justifications for any perceived lack of care.
"You're just not advanced enough to see that I, your guru, care about you."
"It's just your jaundice."
"I was teaching you detachment."
"If you love me, I will love you."
I guess the beginning of such reasoning is grading candidates from kannistha to madhyama ... which is what we tend to do when grading the services of any potential professional
And yet when it comes to spirituality, run-of-the-mill people are disqualified from any such grading from the onset and on principle.
Only an uttama can recognize an uttama, goes the maxim.
We get told, "Who are you to judge?!"
on what grounds do you think it might be reasonable to accept responsibility for personal failure?
Indeed. It's everyone against everyone, right?
Just because it is spirituality, it is no less a struggle for survival, the survival of the fittest. Just like in the material life, spirituality is all the same: one big fight for survival.
Or do you think that it all cases the prospective follower of advice is always faultless?
I was never suggesting that.
I would just think that those who claim to know what is best for us would actually care a bit, ask some questions, see where the person actually is at. Instead they, like a mechanical oracle, utter advice and one has to follow it, or perish, regardless whether one understands it or not.
Apparently, spirituality is for those who are spiritually advanced, rich and influential.
Everyone else should beware, because they will likely get screwed. In the name of God!
the same general principles apply - if we are affected by some problem we not only seek advice on how to solve it but we bring a host of tools with us to determine who and what is the best candidate - and even after making the decision (if one at all makes a decision) there are further issues on how we apply the solution.
And yet when a run-of-the-mill person does so, then all the self-declared spiritual authorities scoff at them for being materialists, rascals, karmis, worthless and so on.