Oh!
Do you mean time is subjective?
As I said I was not critiquing your post itself.
My proposition is more of a probing nature.
My intuitive feeling is that time is emergent as a by-product of change or movement, i.e. events.
Obviously time (duration) must be involved in any kind of description of a chronological continuity of existence.
But it does appear that time is a variable and not a constant, except perhaps for Bohm's Pilot wave model, which may be interpreted as a moving block universe (the Wholeness) but curiously was not mentioned in Paddo's linked discussions.
We speak of an arrow of time which is always forward and I can absolutely agree with that. But curiously it always goes forward in all directions, which on the face of it seems contradictory.
But it would not be contradictory if we lived on the crests or in the troughs of spacetime waves but not inside the waves themselves. All events would be moving forward in time but also moving farther away in opposite directions from each other in space.
If we drop a pebble in a still body of water it becomes the center of an expanding series of circular waves and every point of the circumference of these waves moves relatively further away from every other point, especially at the edge (the largest circumference) of the wave function. The points at the exact opposite side of the center would be moving away from each other at the greatest speed and in opposite directions but each point themselves would be moving forward in time. A small boat would alternately ride a crest or follow a trough but always remain at the surface. A larger boat would only ride the crests, and even smaller boat would only ride in the troughs (which may be related to observations in the double slit experiment)
But at the scale of a relatively small body of water, we can actually count the series of wave fronts created by the dropping of the pebble in a smooth, as yet undisturbed water surface.
Trying to visualize this model with the BB at the center and the circular wave functions expanding away from the center at each point of the circumference, I get a picture of an expanding universe, where time is moving forward in all directions on a wavelike 2d plane of a sphere. This sphere needs not be uniform itself as long as the total circumference is 360 degrees.
It is interesting to note that Bohm's theory does propose "hidden variables" which is one of the main objection to his theory by mainstream science. But if true, could time be such a "hidden variable" caused by a "wave interference", in turn caused by the gravitational effects of massive objects within the greater Pilot Wave function, and thereby disturbing the otherwise unimpeded expansion of the wave itself.
The most interesting aspect of all this is that time appears to slows down depending on speed of movement of object. Why would this have to be so? Why would speed affect time at all if time were a part of a block universe where the past, present, and future are already mathematically determined.
Which would suggest that "hidden variables" such as wave interference patterns do indeed exist and make the future of everything uncertain, along with its associated time frames.
So, it seems to me that the existence, movement, change of objects in reality create their own subjective time, associated to that object only, because the future of each object itself is a variable, some of which can be measured, but some of which are hidden. Obviously some fundamental universal constants do exist as physically expressed in measurable patterns of behavior.
But then for anything moving @ "c" time stands still, which seems contradictory to a chronologyy of continued existence and movement, but which does allow us to see far back into the past.
But when we look into past we are actually looking backward to a smaller version (state) of the expanding universe.
We can look back in past time and observe the energetic emissions of objects which actually are no longer in existence. Is that due to the fact that time stands still for particles travelling @ "c"?
Obviously the continued existence of a star is not necessary for us to be able to observe the energy of the nova which caused the star to cease to exist, millions of years in the past.
So, considering these apparent incongruences, is it possible that time can only be associated to the properties and actions of individual objects or groups of objects which have the same properties and actions such as photons and electrons?
I am just musing and I don't have the knowledge to put this all together in a scientifically comprehensive model. They are just thoughts that occur to me randomly.
I don't claim to have any answers to these questions, but it must be admitted that science also has not quite solved this peculiar phenomenon of time and
why time would or could "stand still" @ "c".
I believe this part can be explained not only in GR as a function of relativity, but also as a by-product of quantum change, which must have an associated time frame, even though, due to our limitations, quantum seems to happen instantaneously.
But I read somewhere that assuming a geometric coordinate model of the universe, when a quantum event occurs anywhere in the system, the entire coordinate system changes and the coordinate "vacated" by a quantum packet is immediately replaced by another quantum packet, which causes an apparently instantaneous cascade of quantum packets filling a "vacated" coordinates.
Which raises the question if quantum coordinates also expand along with expansion of space and the cascading replacement of quantum packets takes more time and in that process time would appear to slow down also. Of course, as we are part of the whole and subject to the same expansion, we would (could) never be able to measure the slowing down of time along with the expansion of space.
OK, can anyone make sense out of this thought salad?