And reluctant bed fellows they are.
Yet we already know and expect ahead of time that not all hopes will be realized, and so there is no big surprise at large upon failure; it's just that we don't know which will fail and when, making still for a little surprise, made smaller by the tempering knowledge of the overall odds. We keep going, slogging though the dross, on the way to the gold, such as when looking for a job or a relationship or whatever.