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I don't think I could wait to have sex until after the wedding!
But anyway getting back to cancelling the wedding. Do you think
it is possible to get together with someone that isn't that great in bed
at first, but with more time and experience with you they can become great?
Especially if you loved them enough to want to marry them in the first place.
Like they would turn you off that much that you didn't even want to be with them anymore?
 
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pls tell me what would u do if u wife is virgin and has no experience or u husband has never had illegal intercourse.to ask for divorce or be patieent with or abondon him.
 
mikenostic said:
There's no way I'd wait a year to have sex with a woman. No way. There are entirely too many decent/good women out there that wouldn't make you wait a freakin year to worry about those kinds of girls.

See what happens when you have that mentality? You more or less wasted more than a year of your life because you thought it would be good to wait.
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Those kinds of girls???
You ass. :mad: Are you saying I wasn't a good decent woman because I didn't want to have pre-marital sex? Because I showed moral fiber and stood by my convictions. Because I found a man who loved me and he waited with me.

Is that what you are saying? :mad:
 
Orleander, I waited about a year with one girl, she was lovely and she was doing the must wait for marriage thing ( I wasn't about to marry her) but anyway, without going into too many details, the waiting and anticipation were wonderfully erotic.

p.s it was worth the wait.
if you worry about mike's opinion, more fool you.
 
shorty_37 said:
I don't think I could wait to have sex until after the wedding!
But anyway getting back to cancelling the wedding. Do you think
it is possible to get together with someone that isn't that great in bed
at first, but with more time and experience with you they can become great?
Especially if you loved them enough to want to marry them in the first place.
Like they would turn you off that much that you didn't even want to be with them anymore?
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yes i do!
 
lucifers angel said:
yes i do!
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I have to kind of agree with you there. If you love someone and they love you enough to get married. You give them 2 chances and they are out :bugeye: Whoa! If you already invested all that time (2 yrs) Jeez what the hell was another half dozen times to really give it a fair chance.

I mean I had a partner once that wasn't so great when we first got together ........but after a short time became GREAT!
 
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Orleander said:
two
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I certainly don't want to make the claim that two tries couldn't reveal the potential of the future. But in general that seems pretty quick. Could you have postponed the wedding and worked on it.

I mean if I loved someone and it did not go well twice it probably would take more for me to give up.

If the person was completely cold or hateful, well, that could shut down my heart.
 
shorty_37 said:
I have to kind of agree with you there. If you love someone and they love you enough to get married. You give them 2 chances and they are out :bugeye: Whoa! If you already invested all that time (2 yrs) Jeez what the hell was another half dozen times to really give it a fair chance.

I mean I had a partner once that wasn't so great when we first got together ........but after a short time became GREAT!
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somtimes it's good to be the teacher! if someone is rubbish in bed when you first meet then teach them to be good!
 
lucifers angel said:
somtimes it's good to be the teacher! if someone is rubbish in bed when you first meet then teach them to be good!
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Well also sometimes somebody may have had another partner before you for a long time. Maybe what they did before isn't exactly what you would like.
I couldn't imagine planning on marrying someone, after being together for 2 yrs. Then having sex 2 times, it wasn't good then tossing them to the curb.
You would think that there would be a hell of alot more feelings there that you wouldn give it more time. That isn't a fair chance to give someone you supposedly love.

I however beleive in actually living with someone before you get married. Dating someone and living with somebody is a whole different ballgame!
I want to have a better idea of what they were really like everyday, sex and all before I married them.
 
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shorty_37 said:
Well also sometimes somebody may have had another partner before you for a long time. Maybe what they did before isn't exactly what you would like.
I couldn't imagine planning on marrying someone, after being together for 2 yrs. Then having sex 2 times, it wasn't good then tossing them to the curb.
You would think that there would be a hell of alot more feelings there that you wouldn't give it more time. That isn't a fair chance to give someone you supposedly love.

I however beleive in actually living with someone before you get married. Dating someone and living with somebody is a whole different ballgame!
I want to have a better idea of what they were really like everyday, sex and all before I married them.
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i find it hard to see how anyone can divorce someone because they are not good in bed, surely you loved that person, teach them new things, and if oyu have to draw diagrams :)
 
shorty_37 said:
Well also sometimes somebody may have had another partner before you for a long time. Maybe what they did before isn't exactly what you would like.
I couldn't imagine planning on marrying someone, after being together for 2 yrs. Then having sex 2 times, it wasn't good then tossing them to the curb.
You would think that there would be a hell of alot more feelings there that you wouldn't give it more time. That isn't a fair chance to give someone you supposedly love.

I however beleive in actually living with someone before you get married. Dating someone and living with somebody is a whole different ballgame!
I want to have a better idea of what they were really like everyday, sex and all before I married them.
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oh i totally agree, i lived with my husaband for 3 years before we got married, we moved away from our home town so we could live with each other and have our families interupting
 
Orleander said:
Those kinds of girls???
You ass. :mad: Are you saying I wasn't a good decent woman because I didn't want to have pre-marital sex? Because I showed moral fiber and stood by my convictions. Because I found a man who loved me and he waited with me.
Is that what you are saying? :mad:
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Actually no, I wasn't directing that towards you. I should have said, there are entirely too many other decent girls out there to worry about waiting.
If a girl wants to wait to have sex, that's her prerogative. I have no bad judgements against them. They are just not for me.*

Besides, I will say that a decent girl would have given the guy she supposedly loves more than TWO tries before she played Runaway Bride on him. :rolleyes:

Spud, if you want to wait to have sex with a girl, more power to you. For every good guy that you find that's willing to wait, I can find 50 good guys that won't. Like I said, there are entirely too many people out there that are willing to comply with your requirements to worry about one that won't. Simple as that.
Just because a guy doesn't want to wait, doesn't make him a bad person.

*When I say I don't want to wait, I'm not talking about expecting sex on the first date or within a week. But I'm not about to wait 6 months, a year or whatever, when any number of other girls (not slutty ones either) that I'd be compatible with wouldn't make me wait that long.
 
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shorty_37 said:
LMAO draw diagrams!!! :p
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yeah he'll get the hint then, imagine:
(holding up a diagram of a clitors)


You: Now John This is the clitoris
john: and what does that do?
you: well until you touch it you'll never know will you?

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mikenostic said:
I didn't. Because you will notice that my response was more eloquent and witty than yours! ;)
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Of course! I am more simple to the point! Haha

I was just thinking something too. Maybe the poor guy just couldn't get it up with all the nagging and complaining. NO don't do it like that.....No I said this way.....No....... ;)
 
shorty_37 said:
Of course! I am more simple to the point! Haha

I was just thinking something too. Maybe the poor guy just couldn't get it up with all the nagging and complaining. NO don't do it like that.....No I said this way.....No....... ;)
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well, perhaps he needed to go and see a doctor, many men can;'t rise to the occassion and they have medical issues to deal with, but nagging doesnt help matters!
 
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