So no one ever had children without being married?!? What world do you live in? Many people don't get married but breed anyway. Remember those marriage vows? To love and... You can't even remember what you said.
You are in another world, one which has no relationship to the real one. It's just in your head, isn't it? It's just what you want to believe. I had a boss like you once, who would argue for hours that black was white, and people would stop wasting their time and go to the pub instead. Of course, black isn't white, which he found out, and that made him very unhappy. You're a very unhappy person indeed, fighting demons which don't exist.
GAY MARRIAGE EXISTS, AND IT'S SPREADING, AND THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT.