Hi Lori
now adstar brought up some good scripture that i'm familiar with suggesting that pursuing and engaging in a sexual relationship (marriage) would serve as a distraction from spirituality, because it's a physical relationship. it's of the flesh, of the world, and it's material. and that's true.
The scriptures that I quoted did not talk much about sex. It talked of the time one was spending serving the spouse and that taking time away from serving God. Loving other people is not of the flesh, but it should come second to loving God.
that's why nuns and priests and lots of other people are celibate, and that's noble.
Let it not be said that the institutionalised celibacy of catholic nuns and priests is noble. I would hate to think that anything I said on the subject of celibacy would be used to give praise to nuns or priests. We have seen where institutionalised celibacy of the catholic church has lead to. People who attempt to live a life of celibacy without being given the God given gift of doing so will always burn with passion and in the case of the catholic church where they teach lies they are given over to burn with “vile passions” (read Romans 1) as we have seen in the media in many places.
and i want to point out that usually, in a case where someone would forego marriage in an attempt to be more spiritually oriented, they would also forego the pursuit of material wealth and possessions.
For me it is not about foregoing. If one has had the desire for these things reduced (by God) to the point where they fall below the desire for a good relationship with God and to love other people then the person has not really made a sacrifice. It’s not their doing/effort. It is the doing of God.
If the desire to be right with God is paramount within one then desire or enjoyment of other things can still exist at a lower level. The spirit of the words of Jesus to me on this issue is not about embracing one and totally rejecting the other, but it is about having these things in the right order of importance.
So it is
1)God
2)People
3) everything else.
greed is wanting to have more than someone else, or at the expense of someone else.
I think wanting to have more than someone else has more to do with jealousy, pride and seeking to be admired/envied by others. But I agree that if a person places material gain above the love for others then it comes at the expense of others. In truth it also comes at the expense of the one who is greedy.
imo, and as scripture states, a much better indication of a relationship with god is how well and how truly you love other people. you don't have to have a lot of money to do that.
Agreed. But in the end loving other people must never cause us to compromise our Love for God.
Matthew 22
34 But when the Pharisees heard that He had silenced the Sadducees, they gathered together. 35 Then one of them, a lawyer, asked Him a question, testing Him, and saying, 36 “Teacher, which is the
great commandment in the law?”
37 Jesus said to him, “ ‘You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and great commandment. 39 And
the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbour as yourself.’
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