(Q) said:Then tell me, for I really need to know, how does one become 'spiritually reborn', exactly?
To be spiritually born you have to follow a spiritual law.
If any man will do his will, he shall know of the doctrine, whether it be of God, or whether I speak of myself. (John 7: 17 )
I would show unto the world that faith is things which are hoped for and not seen; wherefore, dispute not because ye see not, for ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faith. (Ether 12: 6 )
For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. (Rom. 8: 6)
Remember, to be carnally-minded is death, and to be spiritually-minded is life eternal.(2 Ne. 9: 39 )