Here is one paper which claims "Indications for a preferred reference frame from an ether-drift experiment"
And so...?
Clock just measure local time. 'Simultaneity' can be used to explain 'universal time'.
There is no universal time.
Relative to what?
Saying something is relative means that it changes when you change your frame of reference.
Einstein used 'simultaneity' to explain 'time'. In this explanation he considered 'clock' as an event and not as time.
A clock is different from an event, and time is what a clock measures.
The relativity of simultaneity is a derived consequences of the postulates of relativity.