Seattle
Valued Senior Member
I don't think he is not going because he is afraid or not comfortable with who he is.Hm. I think you're letting your introversion rule you.
One doesn't go to weddings for the wedding - or christenings for the christening. One goes to share these times with the people you care about. These things can't hurt you - you are comfortable with who you are enough that it takes nothing away from you to attend them. Churches can't hurt atheists any more than Harry Potter movies can hurt scientists.
He doesn't enjoy those things.