When I hear someone claiming they believe in God, I per default assume that this person claims to be perfect and to have full realization of God. And I hold them to that.
you aren't listening to them then. You are insisting on using your definition to define their word.
Sure. I can understand a word only as I can understand a word. I cannot understand a word in a way I don't understand it.
I would think everyone is like that.
For me, this assumption is simply the consequence of taking matters of God with a life-or-death seriousness.
this would seem to make you a fundamentalist and someone who trusts cognition absolutely.
Fundamentalist - yes.
Someone who absolutely trusts cognition - no. Because I do believe that it is ultimately possible to have proper understanding of things and express it verbally - and this is more than just "trusting cognition."
(It's usually people who aren't very good with words that distrust them. Lol.)
If I were to go and publicly claim, directly or indirectly, that I believe in God, for me the requirement to do so would be precisely perfection and full personal realization of God; without the perfection and realization, I do not think it is appropriate to tell anyone I believe in God.
i think this is a reasonable but impractical idea.
Oh, I know it is impractical.
As long as people aren't saying, "it is not me who lives, but christ in me," as some do, or trying to be a guru, you can cut humanity some slack.
But they do say such things, they do want to be my guru, directly or indirectly!
I've developed a fine nose for spotting attempts to take the upper hand.
Gurus are for people who can live or think vicariously, you can't, so you can stop looking for a guru.
Why, thank you, guru mine!
quite a responsibility. If you tell people their first responsibility as a believer is to not trust you but find out for themselves, I think it is ok.
If that is so, then why waste their time and your own time with talking about God?
deep pits might be the place to hang out sometimes, hence the bodhisattva you mention in your post might want to kill someone because they were just about to get to the place where they would be lost to the heaven delusion for millions of years years, instead of being reborn to human realm, where they have a better chance of achieving union with buddha-mind. ALSO, what if the person (or myself) were already in a deep pit?
The motivation behind that bodhisattva vow is this story: Once, the Buddha was in a boat with several other people, on troubled seas. Being able to read minds, he read the mind of one the people in the boat - that man had the intention to kill someone. So the Buddha pushed him overboard before the man had the chance to act on his intention.
But this story appears to be limited to the Mahayana tradition.
In comparison, a story from the Theravada tradition: There was a ruthless villain named Angulimala. He had killed many people, and wore a necklace made of their fingers. Once, the Buddha decided to pay him a visit. The Buddha's companions warned him against doing so, fearing that Angulimala would kill him too. But no. The Buddha went to visit him anyway, had a conversation with him - and Angulimala changed his ways, ordained and became the Buddha's disciple.
By all means, Angulimala was in a deep pit, with his killing sprees. And yet the Buddha was able to reason with him, without killing him.
(According to the Pali Canon, it is
always unskillful to kill, this is one of the few absolute principles therein.)
I prefer the story with Angulimala. IOW, I see no need for the requirement to kill people, even if it is supposedly for their own good. Apparently, the Buddha simply was more advanced than the Mahayana bodhisattvas (who have not yet actually attained buddhahood anyway, given that they wait that everyone else will be enlightened before them).
Christians think the whole world is a very deep pit people need to be saved out of, so don't accuse the majority of them of being reckless. Or contemptuous.
Do you feel personally hurt by my stance?
the world is a beautiful teaching tool, and all of those people were perfectly placed in it.
I think that is a statement of faith.
Anyone who uses the phrase "just a seeker" is deluded.
Why??
ALSO, you are looking for a teacher in this matter, so I guess finding a colleague would be very frustrating.
I don't understand? Does this have to do with what you are offering?
In one sense, my extreme attitude, however torturous it may seem, has at least one remarkable advantage, though: I can't fall prey to cultists, fundamentalists and the like,
i would say the opposite, unless by not falling prey, you mean not finding anyone perfect enough to qualify, which is probably true. You are more likely to fall prey than someone who believes people are imperfect even after they find God.
Well, I've never joined a cult, nor developed cultish religious behavior, although I was very much enticed to do so.
No, because he'd be in your house, as a guest, under your care and protection.
So I could respect the guest, even consider him my better, and still say, "your ideas about toasters are totally messed up, get back".
Sure. There are, of course, different ways of expressing criticism and admonition, some respectful, some not.
If the Dalai Lama came against you, with a knife or a gun, looking like he is intending to kill you, would you gladly assent? Would you say, "Oh, this infinitely compassionate being is coming to kill me, how nice of him, I will just stand still and let him do it!! I am so happy!" - ? Would you?
I am not prone to cultish behavior. So...
Would you trust another human so much?
no.
Exactly. Then - why should I, or anyone else?
I am the first to point out the necessity of deferring to authority, especially in religious matters - and this primarily on the grounds that trying to play it solo is solipsistic insanity.
But at this point, I don't have the wisdom to figure out how a person who is outside of organized religion can come to relate - in some sane way - to the authorities that are inside religion.
What, and now we should suddenly cut all those self-appointed theists some slack?!
yes, and we should move this to another thread because we are hijacking it with our wonderful off-topic ideas, i think.
Okay then, I'll probably start a new thread then.