Use this thread to talk about whether or not we should embrace all aspects of all other cultures, or if it is reasonable to admire some cultures while looking down on other cultures.
In noticed that respect is potentially being conflated with embracing all the facets of other cultures.
That seems like a very specific and demanding definition of respect. I respect a good number of people whose sum total of facets I do not come near to embracing. I don't even embrace all of my own facets.
The next part that stands out is the issue of whether it is 'reasonable' to admire some cultures while looking down on other cultures.
Must we be reasonable? If we are embracing all the facets of other cultures then surely we are embracing, tastes, emotional reactions, customs, and all sorts of non-rational facets of these cultures.
Why do we need to be reasonable?
I would start I suppose from a minimal damage respect. Am I being damaged by the other culture or persons in it? No, Good, check one. Is there some reason for me to feel like I must try to intervene in some way in how they live? Can I start with non-invasive approaches - like 'hey, don't cut out their clitorises, you jerks.'
Huge portions of most cultures seem like I can 'respect'. Chopsticks, fine. Going to that kind of temple, fine. Workaholics, fine. Folk dance costumes made of wool, fine. Not for me, cotton all the way when dancing, but what the heck do I care.
I am often amazed at how little indifference doesn't take of things like this. But I noticed growing up in a fairly diverse culture how easy it was too be disrespected for going outside the norms in ways that did not harm anyone.
Do we really respect exceptions, anomalies and subcultures in our own cultures?