I used to think similarly about atheism and agnosticism. But when I started moving away from religion a few years back, I started researching things on my own...different belief systems and atheism. During that time, I kept my feelings about what I was feeling to myself because I didn't want well meaning friends, on either side, atheist or Christian to talk me into or out of anything.
Of my atheist friends, including my boyfriend, they don't mock religion. In fact, my boyfriend understands it and thinks if it causes good to come from it, so be it. But, they are good people with kind hearts. They simply don't believe in God. Or the concept of God. There is a misconception amongst believers that they are the problem in the world, with their anti religious agendas.
Of course, there are probably radical atheists who can't stand anything having to do with religion and go out of their way to mock it or degrade it in some way. But that isn't atheism. That's a group of jerks doing bad things who attach an agenda to it.
Likewise, every religious person one meets sure the heck isn't kind and generous. But, many are. Religion however, in my opinion, doesn't allow for freedom of thought and causes division. And the question becomes...for what? Religion ...the one I left behind...teaches that God needs defending. Think about that.
God...if he exists...and created the universe...needs defending? Lol
Forget everything else we know about religion, that just has never made sense to me. Or is it really that people feel good about defending God, and perhaps they will gain favor in his eyes?
Some faiths preach that it's necessary to evangelize to support your belief. Why? I must make sure others know that my version of God is well...the right one? For me, it was a slow gradual fading. As I started asking questions of religion, the less answers I received. Now, one can still be spiritual and not "religious," but I came from the religious camp. And honestly? I lived (and loved) my faith for many years. I can't say that I had a horrible experience that turned me off to it. On the contrary, I have had to part with something I loved, but to not...would mean I'd have to keep justifying non truths, and I couldn't anymore.
If God exists, he is unfathomable and to me, since there are so many versions of him in different religions, it tells me that simply put...no one knows who or what he is...IF he is.
But I have a feeling, he doesn't need defending. He doesn't need a book of bizarre fables to coax people into believing in him. And I speak from a Christian perspective as that is what I followed to support by belief in God, but all religions end up with the same problem. And the problem is...what is truth? Is their truth...the Truth? How can it be when other faiths claim to be Truth?
And the grim reality of many religions, is they are intrusive. Some religions are always looking for new "recruits" and telling people to pray and chastising and judging people based on a set of moral rules that they deem appropriate for all. So yeah, if religion kept to itself ...it would be ok. If people want to believe non truths or speculative truths, so be it as long as they don't intrude those values upon others. But, we all know...religion doesn't stay quiet. So, if atheists are angry at all, it's because of the intrusion, subtle to blatant, of religion.
I could go on and on. But atheism isn't about hating religion or even God. It is merely about honoring humanity instead of a Deity. It's about serving humanity instead of a Deity.
And most importantly...it's about keepin' it real.
So, expand thy horizons...