Has you are aware i have a son with severe ADHD, and i need advice, today on the way to school he attacked me, he kicked me, bit me, scramed me, spat at me, all while others mothers were watching!
Now my question is, i did what some of you said to do, and that was to slap him, i have even banned him of his favourate toys and video games, now has i dropped him of to school, the teachers took one look at him and said that i had to take him home again, so now i have an extreemly hyperactive child at home, smashing everything, like i said i have tried smacking, didnt work, i have taken his games stuff of him, not worked, what else now? all you people out there who say "A good smack will do him good, and a good smack is what bad kids need " this is proof that it doesn't always work so what now people anymore good advice on how to manage this situation?
(right now i love my son but hate him at the same time)
''Has you are aware i have a son with severe ADHD, and i need advice, today on the way to school he attacked me, he kicked me, bit me, scramed me, spat at me, all while others mothers were watching!''
I've done similar things, but it's out of confusion, when really, it's the one's we love we hurt...
''Now my question is, i did what some of you said to do, and that was to slap him, i have even banned him of his favourate toys and video games, now has i dropped him of to school, the teachers took one look at him and said that i had to take him home again, so now i have an extreemly hyperactive child at home, smashing everything, like i said i have tried smacking, didnt work, i have taken his games stuff of him, not worked, what else now? all you people out there who say "A good smack will do him good, and a good smack is what bad kids need " this is proof that it doesn't always work so what now people anymore good advice on how to manage this situation? ''
Don't be harsh, but see it as something he is still learning. It took me a while -- about seven years after the age twelve, i realized that the things i did, was horrible. That's all i will say on the matter, because mind, that he does love you, and it;s only through your love that do you ask such questions.
You're full of love. It's brighter than the fire, that burns within him. He feels alone, as i had, and still do, some regards. My advice, as being akin to his actions, is that he does not understand how to deal with his emotions... whilst you do, and that makes you a very good mother.